- 5 years ago
ive been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now, i know we are young as i am almost 21 and him 22. we love each other. he says things about the future that has me in it. if i say anything related to engagement, a ring, or even someone else getting engaged he will ignore me or yell at me about talking about it, i have stopped because i dont like getting yelled at for about five months now. its so hard because i love him and i know he loves me but he wont do it. we have lived together for a year and a half now. our families have even told me that they are expecting him to do it but still he wont. they dont even say anything to him just in case he will get even more mad about it. i have my moms wedding bands and thats the rings i want to wear. ive asked him politely to hide them so i wont get to look at them and he put them in plain sight instead. 🙁 everytime we go out i get my hopes up and then they crash and burn. im about to give up, im starting to think he will never do it..i want to marry him because i love him and he is the only one i want to be with. when i see others getting engaged and married(most even younger than i am) really hurts..