Waiting's Longer/Harder Than I Thought! (long)

posted 3 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

It really stinks when they talk about a future they’re not ready for. It gets our hopes up too much, lol. In my case, we’re ready, but our finances aren’t, so it’s a different kind of frustration. I’d be seriously hurt of he cut me off in the middle of something that was important to me though, so I get why you’re upset.

Post # 4
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483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

It can be a bit frustating. My SO was tlking bout kids for several years now & after 7 & half years (2 breaks)stil no ring. We started dating young so to me it isn’t all tht long in my brain if that makes sense. But waiting hasn’t gotten to a annoying point yet cuz i never expect it I always put it way in the future. However after many tlks and “where do you see us ” planning I have a rough draft. He has said he wants at least 3 years to of married life before kids & i told him by time i turn 30 i want to either be done with kids or having the last one. I’m 24 and he’s 27 and he is in agreement with this and we both do not want a long engagement. With that info he has anywhere between 5-10 months to propose. Knowing this keeps me calm & he’s ready and states he is but we are trying to get our finaces straight which is another reason for the timeline. I wish you luck and that it does happen earlier then your thinking.

Post # 5
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Worker bee

I’m sorry to hear about your situation, I know it’s hard to hear him say the things he’s said and cut you off in mid sentences. But at least you know now where he stands with marrying you.  I really do hope your luck changes in the marrying department.

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