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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    Insanzy, right?

    Well, after three years of trying to adopt, a co-worker of mine got a call last week to fly out to Washington state to adopt a newborn.  She was there for the birth of a beautiful baby girl. She has absolutely nothing prepared or ready.  A bunch of us were thinking of doing something special for her.  So, I'm looking into presents that I could buy.  I'm just not sure what would work best for a new mom starting from scratch.

    That's where you bees come in.  Any suggestions?!  It'd be greatly appreciated.  Thanks in advance.  :D

     
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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    Can't get enough diapers! Ask if she's planning on cloth or disposable and stock up! Clothes of course. Crib sheets are important because sometimes the baby's mess them faster than you can replace them haha!

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @firsttimemom: That's what I was thinking.  I know that clothes and diapers will be needed more than anything.  I should've known better since I did raise my baby brother for a few years, but I'm so tired that I'm not thinking straight.  I guess maybe I was trying to think outside of the box as well.  I'm looking right now.  I'm so excited for her.

     
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    Pelikila    August 30, 2008   Houston, TX

    What great news for your co-worker and how sweet of you and others to want to do something for her.  Some of my favorite things that we have are a Nosefrida and the Puj Tub.  They aren't big, expensive things but totally go-to items for us.  If you like those for an idea maybe do a basket full of hygiene items: washcloths, hooded towels, shampoo/body wash, and lotion with one of them.

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @Pelikila: Oh wow.  Puj tub sounds like a great idea.  Thanks!

     
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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    @DesireeAnne: Sorry, brain fart. Who wouldn't know that :( I thought this would be pretty cool!

     
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    jaguar    June 11, 2011  

    How amazing for your co-worker! I can only imagine how she must be feeling.

    I'd be going for the hamper style idea, bits of everything - then she will have at least a head start in all areas. :)

     
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    julies1949      

    Prepared meals that she can put in the freezer!

    If you are not big on cooking, you could take a casserole dish, put a weight in it, slip in a gift  certificate to a takeout place near her, wrap the whole thing in foil.

    Tell her this is dinner for some night when she doesn't feel like cooking. Also tell her the instructions are inside.

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @firsttimemom:

    No big deal! I was exhausted and should have elaborated a bit more. But that's a great idea too! Ah, I'm so excited now. It's like I'm having a baby. Sheesh.

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @julies1949:

    Oh girl, I LOVE cooking. I will definitely incorporate something like that as well. :D

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @jaguar:

    I know. We are all really excited for her and can't wait for her to get back. It's our little unit baby! (We work at a hospital). Sorry these are answered separately. iPhone and weddingbee aren't a match.

     
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    kingytobe    June 26, 2011  

    I'm not a Mommy but I think what you're doing is great! Maybe formula since she wont be breast feeding obviously? I know formula can be expensive so that could really help her out! The basic things will end up saving her trips/money alonf the way so those are always great to start with!

     
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    Roux    December 2, 2012   Ballarat, Australia

    Oh wow how exciting! What about something like a baby sling? Being able to carry the baby close would probably help with bonding, considering the two have only just met!

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    @kingytobe: and @Roux:  these are also great ideas!  I'll have to share them with the girls at work so she gets the best they deserve!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    I've said this a million times here, but the Aden and Anais blanket pack and Trumpette socks are the best gifts ever!  If I don't know what to get, that's the direction I go :)

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    That's so exciting! My cousin had that as well, where they weren't even on someones 'list' and they got a call that someone had chosen them and was already in labour.

     

    If you really don't know - ask. It'll give them the chance to tell you what they really need or want. Also, arrange a sort of meal program? They won't have time or energy to create good food, but if it's only the two of them eating it's not that much for people to make two extra servings of something.

     
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    Sunshine23    July 17, 2010   Canada

    Not a mom but I have lots of friends with babies and we have 2 little nephews. I'd definietly say diapers, or a Moby Wrap. Or even just a Babies R Us gift card so she can go and get what she needs.

    http://www.mobywrap.com/

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Blankets, cute newborn outfits, and give them a shower!

    I think this is so amazing and beautiful!  Celebrate it for them if she hasn't already had one.  I'm guessing she hasn't since this sounds like it was such an unexpected blessing!

     
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    Sarah434    May 21, 2011   Dallas

    If you get her clothes try and buy different sizes, when I had my son we had 50+ outfits but all in the same size. They grow out of them sooo fast! Socks, mittens and hats are always needed. Oh and I would have not survived without his baby swing!

     
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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    Even though I didn't buy one, I think a Moses basket, some swaddle blankets (2nd DG's rec) and a couple brands of bottles (maybe Dr.Brown's & Avent, those seem to be top 2 popular..you need 2 types in case she doesn't take to one).  Just make sure to keep gift receipts for everything, since you don't know her taste.  I would be a little hesitant to get her diapers or personal care items, because some moms only want unscented or something special.

    Another great idea is a baby monitor, but that won't be as needed if you get the Moses basket.  I also like the Moby wrap idea. 

    OK, one last one...hehe...I think this is a great stroller for when baby is little...super easy to use and accomodates MOST car seats.  We got ours used on CL.

    http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=baby+trend+snap+n+go&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&client=firefox-a&um=1&hl=en&biw=1440&bih=647&bav=on.2,or.r_gc.r_pw.&ie=UTF-8&cid=2051515556960809197&sa=X&ei=Fm-OTbKDLKeJ0QHA9bS1Cw&ved=0CGgQ8wIwAQ#

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    Formula (ask what type she wants)

    Diapers (disposable or cloth)

    Clothes (onesies and sleepers for at first)

    Swaddle clothes (Halo sleepsacks and swaddlers are hugely popular)

    Moby baby carrier (I got this as a gift and hadn't heard of it but I think it's gonna work amazingly well)

    Gift cards to order food out :)

     

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