Post # 1
Due to conflicts and crazy schedules, FI and I really won’t see each other until Sunday. This conversation ensued:
Me: I have accepted that I won’t have sex with you until Sunday
FI: What about Satureday?
Me: I’m leaving about 11am. Will you be awake?
FI: I will be if you wake me up (he was smiling/smirking when he said this)
Me: What? You’d be ok with me waking you up to have sex?
FI: If you were giving me a blow job at the time… oh yeah
So couple of questions:
1) do you wake up your SO to have sex?
2) Does your SO wake you up to have sex? Do you like it or not?
3) Should I wake up FI on Saturday to have sex?
Post # 3
@Glasgowbound: OMG DH used to do this to me ALL THE TIME. And “waking me up” actually just consisted of nudging me with his naughty bits. I personally hated it, so I told him to stop. Now, if he started doing this once in a while again, I wouldn’t mind. Especially if we hadn’t seen each other for awhile/hadn’t had time to do it for awhile!
Post # 4
Haha…I thought you were asking about waking someone up in the middle of the night based on the title of this. If he tried to wake up in the middle of the night during the week I would threaten to kill him. I am grumpy and not having decent sleep can sometimes trigger headaches for me so no I wouldn’t want to be woken up at that time.
9 or 10 am on a Saturday isn’t exactly super early for most people so I don’t see anything wrong with it at that time.
So I wouldn’t mind…only on the weekends though and not at 3am or anything.
Post # 5
Occasionally my FI invites me to wake him up…and he loves it! I don’t think I would do it unprovoked, but there have been many occasions where he’ll ask me to.
I have told him he could wake me up a couple of times, just because the idea sounded good in theory….and it was a total bust. I’m sure it has to do with the fact that I hate being woken up. But seriously, I couldn’t wake up, I just wanted to go back to sleep, it was terrible! So, we don’t do that any more 🙂
Post # 6
In the morning is fine, but my ex used to wake me up randomly at like 2 am out of dead sleep and it was the most obnoxious thing ever.
Post # 7
I love waking my DH to make love! He usually is late for work when I do.
Post # 8
@QueenOfSerendip: Haha yes! My DH would do the same thing all of the time. I got so mad at him for it once that I pretended he startled me and I slammed my butt backwards into him. He never did that agin…
Post # 9
Is it just me, or does anyone else feel notttt sexual as soon as they get up….my bladder is full, my breath stinks…its just not sexy for me
Post # 10
Not worth it to me.. drowsiness is cuddly, not sexy. In my experience the amount of effort needed to make it good is inversely proportional to our combined energy level.
Post # 11
If my FI woke me up to have sex, I’d probably bite off his dangly bits.
Sleep and I have never gotten along well, and I need every second I can grab with my cranky, sleep-deprived fingers. FI knows this, and endeavors to never, ever wake me up without just cause (and sex ain’t it). So, when we have sex, it’s usually before I go to bed, or when one of us randomly jumps the other during the day.
I woke my FI up for sex once, and lordy, he LOVED it. I really should do it again, it’s just that sex is NOT the first thing on my mind when I wake up.
Post # 12
I’ve done it a few times, and it doesn’t usually turn out well. When my fiance wakes up, he has a routine. And while waking someone up with a BJ is a nice idea, um…I just think of pee. Gross.
Post # 13
My husband does from time to time. I don’t mind at all. I’d do it to him except… I love sleep.
Post # 14
My sleep is precious. He knows not to disturb it.
Post # 15
I did this accidentally once. I somehow got honry while sleeping, woke up part of the way, initiated sex and then woke up all the way. It was fantastic and my FI seemed to enjoy it too (granted, he was pretty confused at the time, but he was not complaining).
If your FI asked you to wake him up for it I do not see the problem. Some people have different sleep routines and wouldn’t greet wakeup sex in a welcoming way, but he seems to want it, so you might as well give it a shot.
Post # 16
@Glasgowbound: Regardless what anyone else does, your fiancé would clearly like you to wake him up with a blow job. So, our opininos aren’t really important so much as your feelings on it. So, if it sounds good to you, do it!