(Closed) Walking away…

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
5892 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

@keebee:  So sorry you are going through this, but I think you are being smart and strong. SO many woman get caught up in the ‘idea’ of being married or the fantasy of the wedding, that they forget to ask if they actually like the guy they are with–actually *like* him, 100% the way he is. Because the person he is today is the same person he will be 5, 10, 20, 30 years from now.

You are so smart to see that even if you love him, you dont respect him (and he probably doesnt respect you). You are strong for having the good sense to walk away, even when it isnt horrible.

I know it’s just a matter of time for you to find your perfect guy.

Post # 4
Member
1279 posts
Bumble bee

@keebee:  Good on you for listening to your gut. Seriously, there are better guys out there.

Post # 5
Member
4646 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It’s hard, but good for you. You deserve better. 

Post # 6
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2060 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@keebee:  You seem to have a really good head on your shoulders.  Congrats on being strong.  I know it will be hard, but keep your head up.

Post # 7
Member
2319 posts
Buzzing bee

@keebee:  GOOD FOR YOU!!!!

That is exactly how i looked at my previous situation. “what would i tell my friend to do if she were in my situation?” My answer was I would have told her to leave long ago.

the point is, you have realized it! That is really tough to take yourself out of the situtation and clearly see things. Your sanity will come back eventually. Surround yourself with good people and keep yourself busy even “stepping out of your comfort zone” until you find yourself again 🙂

Post # 8
Member
138 posts
Blushing bee

I’m sorry to hear things didn’t work out, but I’m proud of you for doing what’s best for you and your future! Best of luck!

Post # 9
Member
4974 posts
Honey bee

Good for you honey! Best of luck.

Post # 10
Member
3381 posts
Sugar bee

@keebee:  If you’re going to leave someone those are really good reasons to do it. I hope you find all the happiness you deserve. Good luck.

Post # 11
Member
9239 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Good for you! Too many fish in the sea to accept anything less than what you deserve. 

Post # 13
Member
2481 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Well done, honey. Life can only get better. 

Post # 14
Member
127 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@keebee:  Good for you for trusting your gut. Take care of you, and laugh/cry/spend time with your girlfriends 🙂

Post # 15
Member
612 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@keebee:  it will get better, I promise you that! Stay strong love, sounds like you made the right decision!

Post # 16
Member
810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@MissGemini:  Good for you! Please surround yourself with love, laughter and fun. Explore. Do something daring. Just don’t look back.

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