Walking down the aisle with oldest son…?

posted 3 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
42182 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AngE0522:  I think what you mentioned, flower girls. younger boys, then you and your older son, is perfect!

Post # 4
3249 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@AngE0522:  Why can’t all three walk you down?  Is it physical space?  I think the idea of going as a group, with your oldest having you on his arm is beautiful.  And, at 12, I think he will really enjoy such an adult, yet basically idiot proof, role in the ceremony, and he will appreciate the special moment with you the most of the three of them.

Alternatively, the younger boys could escort the flower girls down the aisle, like bridesmaids and ushers normally do.

Post # 5
7055 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AngE0522:  I think it’s fine to have your younger two sons immediately before you. Assuming the FGs aren’t your daughters, that’s how it should be: your sons are more important in your life, so they take priority over the FGs and walk closer to you.

Another possibility is your two older sons walk you, and your 2 year old walk with the flower girls.

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