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Walking Down the Stairs or Aisle

posted 2 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Stairs os Aisle
    Stairs : (24 votes)
    62 %
    Aisle : (15 votes)
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    chirico8684    August 21, 2010   Philadelphia,PA

    I am not getting married in a church, and the venue I decided on has a huge marble staircase. The planner said most of the brides descend the staircase instead of walk down an "Aisle". How do you feel about this?

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    I feel like I would bust my ass...but that's just me. Between nerves and heels, I'd be head over heels in a heartbeat. I love the idea of it though! :)

     
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    penguin    June 7, 2008   Berkeley, Ca

    Sounds special and will make a memorable entrance!

     
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    Cole B    October 16, 2010   Northern Indiana

    Are the chairs usually set up so that the stairs are in the front? Or are the stairs usually the beginning of the aisle?

     
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    miss longhorn    September 2010   austin, texas

    I would probably fall down the stairs!

     
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    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    It sounds like a beautiful photo op.  I'd just practice a couple of times in my wedding shoes before the big day.

     
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    lemondrop    March 13, 2010   Arizona

    I voted stairs since it is very unique sounding, but I am very uncoordinated and could not get away with it!  Just go slow, have an arm to guide you and it will be beautiful.  

     
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    chirico8684    August 21, 2010   Philadelphia,PA

    I am having nightmares of tumbling down the stairs. I may need to practice. Good thing I have lots of time.

    The chairs would be set up facing away from the stairs. I would descend the stairs, and then walk down a short aisle to the center for the ceremony.

     
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    Mandyrosy    September 19, 2009   Montana

    The stairs sound dramatic!

    I have stairs (no aisle option) to walk down, and I am terrified of taking a header! In hopes of not falling headfirst down the stairs in front of all my friends and family, I am wearing totally flat shoes and having my dress hemmed to a good walking length - no train. Also, I'm walking with my strong, giant dad holding onto my arm. He's caught me before, so I know he won't let me fall too badly! :)

    Good luck whatever you do!

     
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    Ember78    December 15, 2012  

    I'd rather walk down the aisle. I'd be too afraid of falling on my face or my bum, especially in heels. And definitely would need an escort to help keep from falling.

     
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    bruschetta    August 29, 2009   Philadelphia

    That would be beautiful!  I'm a bit klutzy, so that's the only thing that would make me nervous.  But it's really unique, so I say you should go for it!

     
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    nomerstoo    May 9, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I think the stairs are more dramatic, but I would be terrafied of falling or tripping on my dress.

    You can always take pictures on the stairs afterward for the dramatic photos.

     
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    FutureFisher    March 13, 2010   Gresham, WI

    I would love to walk down a spiral staircase like the ones at Villa Antonia in TX but I'm like a newborn deer on my feet...and I don't live in TX. : (

     
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    MissChocoholic2009    Summer 2010(redo)   Pottstown

    Mine has stairs leading to the aisle. We are having it in our backyard and we have stairs from the kitchen, where I will be coming from, and then the aisle will start to the altar

     
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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    Stairs to a short aisle?  its the best of both worlds!  You get the drama of the stairs and the calssic feel of walking down the aisle. Cant wait to see pictures!

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I voted for the aisle, because... well I'm about as graceful as an elephant.

    Stairs make me nervous, especially if you're wearing new shoes & a long dress! lol Hopefully you're more coordinated than I am :)

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    If I walked down stairs, I think my clumsy self would turn them into a slide. :p

     
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    ktdid23    November 7, 2008   Annapolis, MD

    I voted for stairs because it will be a great photo op!  Though I do agree with the others that I'd probably be nervous and fall... but that's why'd I'd just hold tight to whomever was walking me down the stairs!

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    sounds gorgeous as a photo, as other bees have mentioned, but I would be so nervous!

     
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    thecolorteale    June 5, 2010 ...yeah we changed it a 3rd & final time.   Chattanooga, TN

    There's no way anyone could talk me into going down the stairs. I'd be going to the hospital in my wedding gown.

    But that's just me personally lol!

     
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    Cinderella2010    January 9, 2010   Kansas

    Either one sounds beautiful! But, if most brides do stairs.. i'd want to be different. =) I'm just odd.

     
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    dachshund    May 22, 2010   Fresno, CA

    Walking down the stairs would be such a dramatic entrance!  Just make sure you trust whomever is walking you down to catch you if you trip!  :D

     
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    If the planner said "most brides" do the stairs...the odds are probably with you that it will be fine.  I think you have to do the stairs for the photos alone.  Just take your heels out there and do some practicing before the day.  Go slowly and hold on to your escort tightly...will be great!

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    while stairs would probably be beautiful, it wouldn't be worth the anxiety for me when thinking about how i'd fall in front of all those people. but then again i already have that anxiety, as i stupidly bought heals when i never ever wear them.

     
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    AandD0127    September 26, 2009   Alabama

    I love the idea of stairs. Your grand entrance would be sooo grand! :)

     
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    beagle    October 24, 2009  

    It sounds nice, but I know if I tried something like that I would fall. :)

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    Go with what makes you the most comfortable.  I have to walk down stairs, otherwise I'm getting married with a megaphone.  Kinda wish I'd thought about that before hand because now I'm nervous!  It is scary to consider falling so maybe the aisle is better, if you're a worrier like myself. 

     
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    MsHymanRoth    October 24, 2009   Boston

    Will you meet the groom at the end of the stairs? Will there be an aisle at the end of the stairs to walk down?

    I would loooove to walk down stairs for pictures ... at least!

    I voted stairs.

     
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    GretaEhm      

    Here is a dancer's trick for going down stairs without looking down at all -

    Stand a few inches from the edge of the first step. 

    Standing and walking in a slight turn out will give you more stability.

    Put your hand lightly on the rail.  It looks prettier if you don't grip.  You can instantly grab the rail if necessary.

    Slide the ball of your foot straight ahead until your foot finds the step and then finds air. 

    Then tap the outside middle part of your shoe on the step edge so you know exactly where it is.

    Continue to move forward and step down.

     

    This a heck of a lot easier than it sounds.  It just takes lots of words to explain.  Practice at work, dept stores, move theatres, etc, so you get it down cold.

    As the others said, practice a few times in your heels during the rehearsal.

     

    I don't dance ballet any longer (knees are toast) but I still walk down stairs this way unless they are icy/slippery.  It's such a pretty look.

     
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    AliOopsieDaisy    July 2010  

    I will be going town stairs- and then meet my father at the end of the staircase then proceed down the aisle from there. I plan on wearing flats but I'm still a little nervous!

     

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