(Closed) Wannabe Bridesmaid

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
3525 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

She sounds like a bully. Imo, you’re doing the right thing by standing your ground.

Post # 4
46236 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

She is being childish and trying to blackmail you into inviting her to be in the wedding party. Maybe this behavior has worked for her in the past.

Carry on with your plans. Invite her to the wedding, shower, bachelorette etc, but don’t cave to her childish behavior.

Post # 7
2281 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Wow. I can’t even imagine how controlling she would be if you did cave and put her in your wedding party! Stand your ground. She’ll get over it. And if she doesn’t, she can stew in it all by herself. 

Sorry you’re having to go through this. Planning is stressful enough, without other people turning their problems into your drama. 

Post # 8
516 posts
Busy bee

She’s a nut.  Ignore her threats and enjoy your wedding!

I do have a question- what does your best friend have to say about it?  Does he know that he married a nut, or does he agree with her?

I’m asking because if it’s the former, he’ll probably talk some sense into her before the actual wedding.

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