(Closed) Want to change everything 36days out

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
488 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I feel the same way!  The “theme” that I thought I wanted just wasn’t me… So I am making subtle changes to mine, but I think the big things like your dress, etc might be too late to change.  

Take a deep breath and think of the little things that you could tweek before the big day. Do you think you might have a slight case of cold feet as well?  You may just be feeling overwhelmed because it’s almost here, which is completely understandable! 🙂

Post # 4
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Are you sure these changes are necessary? OR are you just feeling stressed? Why don’t you focus on yourself instead of the wedding. I hope you feel better! 

Post # 6
927 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Ugh i feel your pain, i need to lose at least 5lbs for my dress to fit, and yes I’m feeling dress regret & questioning everything! For some reason i keep wanting to buy more favors lol. Anyway, there’s a reason why you chose everything you did, it’s just nerves! Day of will be wonderful : )

Post # 8
210 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Awe. I’m so far out from our wedding, I haven’t had this yet — but I think it would help to sit down and think about the reasons why you chose everything you did. We’re really putting a lot of thought into everything before we commit, and I’m sure you did the same! So try to put yourself back into the moment of choosing, for example, your colours — when you finally settled on a colour scheme, and you just knew it was the right one, remember how that felt? Hopefully it will make some of your second thoughts go away 🙂


Hang in there – your wedding will be wonderful!

Post # 10
6256 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

@MrsTimmy:  Don’t change everything about your wedding!

You can lose the weight, and still eat constantly if you need to. You should look into the South Beach diet. Basically you can eat as much as you want as long as it’s within the parameters of the program. You sound like you might be an excellent candidate for that, because you lose a lot of weight quickly in the beginning stage.

Post # 11
11273 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2012

@MrsTimmy:  don’t stress out.  just remember the main objective of the day is to marry the man of your dreams.  everything else is fluff.

i told myself this over and over and found that it worked.  weddings are not perfect so don’t expect them to be.  mine certainly wasn’t perfect but i still wouldn’t have changed a thing.

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