Weddingbee boards

So my FI just got off the phone with his father who is wondering what I want him and my father to wear to "stand out". My original idea is to get them both customized red converse that we are getting for the groomsmen.  They both come from the generation where these were very big, and I know they will both love them, however, they BOTH have wide feet and I'm afraid the shoes won't fit (I already emailed converse, no wide sizes available in the style I want). But....this idea is still on the table.

FI's dad says he would like to wear a white golfers hat and I am thinking...not exactly what I was thinking. LOL. dads are funny.

SO what I need/want from you bees is some other ideas on what I could do to help the dads feel special.

@precie: that's an interesting idea! Our colors are black and white, and the groomsmen are wearing black ties....however our accent color(that I'm not using too much b/c I like b&w better) is red....perhaps we could have them do Red ties!

@Lady: I was thinking about doing pocket squares. I'm just not sure how to incorporate them with the ties. are they supposed to be a different pattern and/or color? the boys are wearing plain black ties, so I was thinking white-ish pocket squares. or will that look like a handkerchief?

@ future: I'm thinking about not doing bout's since I'm DIYing the flowers. I just don't think I want to go there with trying to make them, and wrap them, and keep them alive, esp since I'm doing white and I can just see the flowers turning brown.

Pull a Britney Spears and bedazzle tha back with "Pimp Daddy"? Kiddind...we're having special bouts made for the dads and grandpas and special corsages for the moms and grandmas. They'll also be in a different tie than the groomsman.