Wanting To Wear "Wedding" Ring

posted 3 years ago in Rings
  • poll: What is your take on wearing this ring?
    I should be able to switch it out now and wear it full-time : (9 votes)
    32 %
    I should be able to at least see it every couple of weeks : (9 votes)
    32 %
    I shouldn't be able to see it at all. : (10 votes)
    36 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1625 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @WeddingBells2014:  I think it’s weird that you’re trying to lie to your fiance to manipulate him into letting you wear the ring. That’s just kind of silly. I don’t think it’s that big of a deal for you to “visit” it before you get married, but if he feels THAT strongly about saving it for your wedding day I’d just drop it. Soon enough you’ll be wearing it for life!

    Post # 4
    Member
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Mine also kept my ring under lock and key before we got married! Wouldn’t let me look at it or try it on!

    But finally getting to wear it on our wedding day (and every day since) has been AMAZING!

    If that’s his one big request, I would go with it!

    Post # 5
    Member
    393 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: January 2015

    this new ring is to replace your old ring? why cant you wear it now? 

    thats what wedding bands are for, even tho im wearing my band before we get married.its just a ring and I WANT to wear it

    Post # 6
    Member
    5483 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @WeddingBells2014:  very weird that he feels that way. My oh could have cared less….

    Post # 7
    Member
    2258 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2007

    @WeddingBells2014:  Do you have a picture? I love ruby rings, it sounds lovely! If you’re getting a band to wear with it, then couldn’t you wear the ruby now and hide the band away for the wedding? 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1517 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Some people think it’s bad luck, does he feel that way?

    Post # 9
    Member
    525 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I don’t really see the big deal if this is to replace your engagement ring… 

    I just don’t understand how your grandmother said you shouldn’t even be allowed to see it before the wedding. You are a grown woman and you should be able to at least inspect the ring that you will be wearing – the last thing you need is for it to tarnish and need polishing but you don’t find out until the day of when people want pics of it!

    I agree with some above posters – it is the wedding band itself you should be refraining from wearing (although I think periodic visits are ok still) and not the replacement engagement ring!

    Post # 10
    Member
    128 posts
    Blushing bee

    It’s bad luck to wear your ring before your wedding day!

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