Was anyone else's wedding NOT the most important day of their life?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

@mgol25:  I’m pretty sure that phrase means “thus far” which has nothing to do with every huge day and moment you’ll have for the rest of your life!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Nope it was the day we became parents for the first time. That happened before the wedding though. (:

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

It wasn’t. And I’m happy, because that would mean that everything else from there is downhill.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

It won’t be mine 🙂

It will be a special day to remember (fondly, I hope!) but it’s unlikely to make the Top 10.

The day we met was much more important, though I didn’t know it at the time!

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

My wedding day was great- but not the best or most important day of my life. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I think it’ll be one of the greatest days, but I think the day when I birth a human being will be far greater…lol

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I feel like there are other way more important days.  At this point we already are commited to eachother and are spending the rest of our lives together.  The wedding doesn’t change that, it is basically just a way to tell everyone else that and an excuse for a party. 

I don’t want any day to be the best of my life, unless it’s the day I die.  Because anything sooner means it’s all downhill from there.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I agree that it usually means biggest day SO FAR. And maybe it will be someone’s best day ever…maybe their wedding is just that awesome! I still think that college was the best time of my life…something I hesitate to say to a lot of people, b/c I now have a child, and so many parents feel like the time with their kids is the best time ever…but I don’t feel that way YET. Everyone is different.

 If my wedding can beat St. Patrick’s Day 2007 (or the following summer), then maybe it will be the best day of my life!

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I loved my wedding day. However, I am currently 6 months pregnant and I know the day that we bring our daughter into this world will be much bigger than our wedding day.

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@joya_aspera:  Not even in the top 10?!

My dding will be great I’m sure, and my honeymoon will be a trip I will always remember. And I bet it’ll be the one day when all the attention is on me, that is likely never to happen again. But will it be my only great day? Certainly not. My sons birthday was very special. The day we bring a new adopted baby girl home will be pretty awesome. All of our future trips will likely be awesome, and so on and so on. 

So yes, our wedding will be great, but the greatest day evar? Maybe not.

Post # 14
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2015

Idk, that phrase never worked for me. I guess to me the relationship, the things we do, are much more important than a day. And I have my career and my life purpose, these things are bigger to me Than a day. 

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

So far it’s been the best day. The most important day thus far was my college graduation.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

No, it was one of many amazing days I have had and will continue to have in my life.  I’ll leave it at that since one time I got bitched out on a thread for my feelings on weddings being the most important day of your life.

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