(Closed) Was I wrong here. Not wedding related.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

NO- sounds like a child.

I wouldn’t worry about it.

Post # 5
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2289 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Honestly? She sounds like she has an emotional issue, possibly bipolar. Of course you didn’t do anything wrong.

Post # 5
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338 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

wow.  I don’t even know what to say to that, other than a five-letter word that comes to mind… She was completely in the wrong.  So sorry you had to experience that slap in the face after everything that happened 🙁

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Yeah she was definitly wrong… find a new friend.

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

no you didnt do anything wrong. not that it gives her a excuse for the way she acted but some people just cant handle things like that.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

No one likes to hear sad news, but geez, she couldn’t hold it together enough to be a good friend and listen to you when you needed emotional support?

If someone did that to me I would never tell them anything again.

Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

People react differently to death related news. i would just not talk to her about anything  that serious.  I have a friend who avoids talking about death at all costs and does not go to funerals.. each to their own

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

No, you weren’t wrong.  She was way our of line…and doesn’t sound like much of a friend.  She basically told you she is only going to be there for you when things are good and to not expect anything from her when things aren’t so good.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

That was immature of her, in my opinion. I don’t like hearing about sad things either, but I don’t disregard the feelings of a friend who is hurting, or anyone for that matter. What she did is just plain cold. A simple “Wow, I’m so sorry to hear that” would have sufficed, I’m sure, but she couldn’t even do that.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I won’t say you were wrong, but I have read those threads and that story MIGHT have been a little heavy to share with someone before class. When she asked why you were sad, I really doubt she expected THAT story to come out, and maybe it just overwhelmed her and she didn’t really know what to say.

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