(Closed) Was my friend trying to have a three-way?

posted 5 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

YEOWWWWWWWWWW sounds like someone has a girl crush!! I would just let it slide. It’d be SUPER awkward to bring up.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I wouldn’t call it anything unless she DID get into bed with you two or ACTUALLY tried to make out with you.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Def sound like a girl crush!!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Sounds like it to me!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@anon00:  Maybe she was just drunk and making silly comments as a result. Perhaps she admires your looks in a non-sexual way?

If I were in her position, I’d probably be embarassed. I don’t think she was trying to initiate anything though.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Whoa she does have a women crush on you!! 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Whoaaah you had balls to bring it up on Facebook! Let us know if you hear back from her. Awkwardddd

Post # 11
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Busy bee

Sounds just like silly girl talk. That’s how I talk to all my friends — I’m just being nice, and if I’m comfortable around them, why not! I’d be mortified if they took it as anything other than friendship.

Maybe she’s sitting at home thinking the same thing about YOU. (“She got me to try on her bras? Uhh…what if she was trying to say something? I’m glad I acted all girly back so she didn’t feel out of place!”). Just some food for thought…

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Sounds like it to me!  I actually had a friend do this exact thing in college.  We were trying to go to bed and she wouldn’t leave, sitting on the bed, etc.  Awkward!  Maybe she just gets a little frisky after a few drinks.  I wouldn’t think too much about it.

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

It does sounds like thats what she may have been interested in.. however, I wouldn’t look into it too much. She could have had a little too much to drink, and then her trying on the lingerie could have made her feel sexy, and obviously, she was attracted to you in that moment.

 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

Mmmmmmaybe she was propositioning you? More likely she was drunk and horny and uninhibited. I guess if you’re not afraid of the answer if it’s yes, ask her the next time you guys are laughing over cocktails? I’d just be prepared to say that you’re realy flattered but not interested if that’s the case. (She’ll probably be moritifed anyhow. Just a word of warning if you do decide to ask.)

Post # 15
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

@winstonchurchill:  I was thinking the same thing.

This could be totally normal girlfriends messing around or something more….it just depends on your relationship, OP.

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