(Closed) Was this rude of future in-laws?

posted 5 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

@tirralirra:  My feelings would have been hurt as well, so you’re not alone there. I think they were a bit quick to blame your food and call everyone up. They may have just wanted to make sure everyone else was okay, but it’s not like calling them would have fixed anything. I can’t believe they had the nerve to do it in front of you and cause such a scene! It’s their kitchen and their refrigerator you’re using, right?

From now on, maybe you can involve your FMIL in the cooking so she can share the blame. 😉

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2019

Seriously? I would be pissed off too, especially since you only got to make one dish and your FMIL took over all the rest! I would say to them, well I only made one dish so is it possible that it was one of the other 4/5 dishes that you made that I was originally in charge of?

Post # 6
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2188 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

I would be hurt too that they immediately blamed you. Don’t they know it’s cold/flu season and there is a nasty norovirus going around?

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’d be enraged… To hell with all of them honey, you can do better. Your FI should have taken your side.  If anyone including fil’s were rude to me my FI would put them in their place. My mother passed 2 years ago and she would have NEVER degrated anyone like that. Very very poor taste.

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