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Another thread on the intimacy board has me wondering, because a lot of people said that they've never been with anyone else besides their current fiance. So I'm just curious.
He's not my first, and I'm glad he isn't. I like to be able to compare :P
He's my third. I wish he was my second because I did a stupid thing that I regret lol. But I'm glad I have something to compare him to!! lol This way I can truly appreciate how awesome he is :P
Not my first... super happy because I found exactly what I needed. I never regret anything from the past.
Not my first at all. We didn't meet until I was 24. I'm glad he wasn't as it gave me something to compare to, and opportunities to pick up tricks and skills, (hehe). Also I feel like I sowed my wild oats and don't feel like I'm missing out on anything or wondering what else is out there.
Not my first, but since I'm almost 30, I don't feel bad about that. I'm just happy I kept it to single digits (nothing against anyone with more or less "experience"!) 
Not even close. But I never had any interest in it being that way... one of the reasons I was never all that serious with the guy who was my first was because I didn't want to commit when I had so little experience. I have no regrets... even the bad decisions weren't so bad that they don't make great stories.
Not my first...I always wanted to be my one and only to be my husband...but life got in the way! :p
We're not each others' firsts... but we're perfectly okay with that. We'll be each others' lasts. :)
Yes, he is my first, and I am his fourth. And last. LOL.
There was a post before about how many (if any) previous partners you & your partner have had.
neither of us were each others first. i'm really happy about that actually we both appreciate how awesome it is, since we're able to compare. i think sexual compatibility is a very important aspect and i wanna try it before i buy it (totally the way i work, i know everyone isnt like that).
Not at all, but then again I am 30 so that would be kinda odd/awkward wouldn't it!
i'm basically going to steal the line from the poll.
not yet, but he will be my first when we get married, as will i for him.
We were 22 (him) and 23(me) when we got married and we were each other's first on our wedding night.
Yes, but it was not for intentional reasons, just happened that my first relationship stuck in a big way. :P
I wish. Thinking about pretty much any of the losers I was with before makes me sick to my stomach. But alas, no. I was his first though.
My fiance' and I were each others first and have dated off and on since high school and then got back together 5 years ago. The weekend we get married we will have known each other 21 years.
lol @Flamingred - when I read the title of this post, those were my exact first thoughts!! haha
Ddubzz, that is a great way of looking at it!!
yes my fiance will be my first, and same with me :).
He's my second and I'm like his 5th (we choose not to discuss exact numbers, haha). Even though I don't talk to the first boy anymore, I don't regret it at all. We were in a 4 year relationship and I learned a lot from him.
My first fiance' was my first. I am eternally grateful we didn't work out, and that I've dated other people - 21 was definitely not my age to settle down!
I second Ms. Caniche--well put. I don't regret any of my experiences at all because they were all with great guys and I learned a lot about what I need from a relationship; same for him. Works for us!
not even close for me. but i think i was technically his first successful endeavor.
Being with other men made me so much more grateful and appreciative of my fiance.
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