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Was your fiance your "first?"

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
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  • poll: Was your fiance your "first?"
    Yes, he/she was my first : (178 votes)
    32 %
    Not yet, but he/she WILL be my first when we get married : (50 votes)
    9 %
    No, I've been with others. : (329 votes)
    59 %
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    Wow,  41% yes??? I find that very surprising. There must be a lot of very young brides here.

     
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    bryanneb61    May 5, 2012   Columbus, Ohio

    He wasn't my first - In some ways I wish he was, but in other ways I am glad to have the experience/basis for comparison.

    Technically, I am his first.  You'd never know though - the boy is a natural!  :)

     
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    afuturemrsl    July 30, 2011   Massachusetts

    I am his first but he is my second. I am not regretful about it, and he doesn't mind either.

     
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    dada    July 10, 2010   Chicago

    first for each other on wedding night :)

     
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    maeby    March 30, 2012   Atlanta, GA

    He had two others before me, but I was a (very) late bloomer and hadn't even been kissed before we started dating. And I second that, ddbuzz, that's the best way of thinking about it!

     
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    Vitsippa    October 10, 2010  

    Nope and nope. This will be my 2nd marriage and he "expects me to have a life before him" - his words, not mine Smile

     
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    Statutory Grape    March 2014  

    Nope. He's my fifth, and I'm his third. I joked when I first met him that this had to be the one because if he wasn't, I wouldn't be able to count on one hand anymore. LOL.

     
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    Ka393    September 9, 2011  

    He will be my first and I am his first as well.

     
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    Young.love    May 12, 2012  

    I was his first, and he was my third.

     
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    panterapeach    April 2011  

    Nope but he will be my last,

    I have no idea how many people my FI has been with prior to me. Thats something I didnt want to know the answer of.  As long as he was safe with them, I dont care the number, because I am his last too.

     

     
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    AudzinLuv    September 2012   Augusta, GA

    He's not my first, and I'm not his first, but that's ok.  We told each other our numbers when we first started dating, and they were pretty similar.  But he's my best!  (Of course I'm his best, too!) Wink  Goes without saying that we're hoping to be each other's last as well.

     
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    pinesey    January 11, 2010   New York

    There should be an "Other" choice, because my husband was my first, but that was when we were teens and dating casually. We then didn't see each other for a few years and I was in other relationships.

     
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    chicyetfrugal    February 19, 2011  

    He will be my first and last !

     

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