Wax Play

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
Member
11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Careful how high you hold the candle. I had a guy burn the hell out of me once!

But it was fine until the whole blistering thing happened!

Post # 4
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127 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@mallo:  I’ve done it to someone else before. Make sure to be careful getting wax on anything made of fabric… It will melt in the drier and get all over other clothes. I learned that the hard way. Tongue Out

Post # 5
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8706 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

There are whole sorts of candles devoted to this. I’d suggest trying with one of the massage candles first to see if it’s something you really like. Generally they’re made of soy and have a lower melting point so they won’t be as hot. Unless you’re into that.

Post # 6
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4698 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Do not use scented or colored candles. Their melting point is much higher and will burn you. Best bet is to buy candles for this express purpose. And as PP said, avoid fabric – I wouldn’t do it in the bed, or I’d have a special set of sheets for it. I’d do it on a hard floor, in a clean bathroom, or lay down some old towels or t-shirts you don’t mind throwing away (or only using for wax play.) 

Post # 7
cherrypieBee
1059 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008 - A tiny town just outside of Glacier National Park

Yeah, be REALLY careful what kind of candles you use. We were just messing around one time and didn’t think about it and I ended up with a nasty burn on my chest. If the melting point is lower, it really isn’t super hot, but if it’s higher, that wax can HURT, and not in a good way.

Post # 8
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130 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Looove wax play! Be careful about what kind of candles you use – beeswax candles get VERY hot, and will probably leave a burn mark (I like them, but I like intense sensations). I would put down a blanket you don’t care about, or I’ve heard of people putting an old shower curtain down. If the wax does get on your clothes: http://www.wikihow.com/Remove-Wax-from-Clothing. Also, definitely start slow, and communicate with your partner if it gets too painful. Have fun!

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