Post # 1
Long time Bee going undercover here. Hoping you can offer some advice.
My DF is very into the idea of “finishing” on my face. I’m not necessarily opposed to it, but I don’t know where to start. Is this something you do? If so, any pointers? how do I make it as good as possible for both of us!
Post # 4
@Curiousbee1234: My FI has never asked me.
However it has happened in the past. My advice would be…keep your eyes closed the moment before it happens, do it on a day you WANT to wash your hair, and choose a pillowcase you don’t care about…that stuff can go a lot further than you think!!!
If you get any in your eyes, wash them out straight away. All the best!
Post # 5
I voted never. He’s never asked and I’m glad. I can’t decide whether I’d feel degraded or just start laughing hysterically. I think I’m too vanilla.
Post # 6
I think as long as you don’t find it degrading I agree with charbelle’s tips!
I don’t do it every time and off the batt it seems quite laughable but sometimes when you’re in the mood it’s kinda hot… lol
Post # 7
Like a PP said, CLOSE YOUR EYES. Once that stuff gets in there it hurts really, really bad. I’ve only done it a couple of times and had one bad experience with it where, you guessed it, it got in my eyes and burned like nobody’s business. Otherwise, all I can advise is be prepared to shower and have tissues nearby to wipe it off.
Post # 8
I’ve only let a guy do it once and it was in the shower…..that would probably be the only way it would happen so try that…..you can put your head under the water close your eyes so when it happens you will barely know because all you will feel is the water running down your face and then you can just wash your face afterwards
Post # 9
@Curiousbee1234: Honestly, he has never done that. He has finished on my back/stomach and a few times on my chest, but I really cannot stand the sticky feeling. When I think of someone finishing on a girl’s face, I think of porns or when they belittle women (not trying to offend someone–it’s just my gut reaction). So, I don’t think he will ever finish on my face.
Post # 11
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Sometimes, though I don’t like it too much. Every now and then if I give him.a bj. Flavored lube & drinks help 😛 . Also have a towel or napkins nearby.
I second charbelles tips!
Post # 12
Sounds like he’s been watching a lot of porn.
I second what other bees say, if you find it degrading, don’t do it. You’ll just become resentful. A compromise could be him finishing on your chest (near face area, still sexy etc) or finishing on your tongue so not your whole face and you just swallow and it’s easy cleanup.
And yes, semen in your eye stings like no other! So close your eyes and have him bring you a towel because you won’t want to open them.
Post # 13
@bmo88: I respect your opinion that you feel it belittles women and am definitely not offended. In a lot of porn I’ve seen it does look like they do it with the intention of belittling the woman. I just don’t agree personally in real life action (though I can easily imagine scenarios where it would be belittling).
It’s not something we talk about or plan, but it happens now and then. I’ll be giving a playful BJ, usually being lazy and lying on my back or he’s kneeling-I’m lying propped up in front of his genitals. It’ll be a playful BJ and he’ll warn me he’s there (he always does) and I just keep playing with him and it ends up on my face. So it’s totally my fault for not stopping or aiming it elsewhere :). I’m fine with the taste/texture so it doesn’t bother me at all. I do always keep my eyes closed if there’s even a chance though! I haven’t had it in the eye but friends have said it’s horrible.
He’s never asked for it but seems to think it’s erotic/fun/funny depending on the situation. He has asked to cum on my breasts, which I think is silly… but hey, it’s not hurting/bothering me and he enjoys it and I like watching him enjoy himself so it’s all good. 🙂 I know he thinks my love of his “fur” (hair) on his chest/face isn’t something he really gets, but he gets it turns me on and enjoys that… so we’re even. 🙂
@Curiousbee1234: Making it fun for both is the key really. If you don’t want to try it don’t. If you do, make it about playing with him, teasing him, etc while you handle him/give him a BJ. Getting him turned on and on the edge, he lets you know when, and you aim or let him. It can be fun IF both want to and are respectful about it… and you probably will want to take a quick shower after just to make sure you got it all :).
Post # 14
Nope. I don’t think he has any interest in it at all because he views it as funny/ridiculous.
Post # 15
Both DH & I find it degrading.
Post # 16
Never, but then he’s always more interested in finishing inside me. Is chest a possible compromise?