We are giving it another try…slowly

posted 2 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
109 posts
Blushing bee

Good luck to you guys! I admire your willingness to work on things. In my previous relationship, there were things that I just couldn’t deal with. Pot smoking was one of them, and my youth/curiosity was another. I needed time to figure out what I wanted, and who I was going to be. I couldn’t do that with her. I thought I was gay, turns out, while I can see the beauty in women, I am mostly a straight female that needed a sexual experience with a man. These are things I just couldn’t NOT have. Either because I was curious, or selfish, or both. I feel horrible, and maybe someday I can make things right with her and have that talk…but for now, I have to slowly forgive myself for needing things she coudln’t give me. It hasn’t been easy.

I say all this to say, maybe things couldn’t be fixed for me, but there’s hope for you. Good luck and I wish you all the best.

Post # 3
293 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Good luck! Just remember that if things feel like they are going back to where they were…say something! Sit down and talk about it. Don’t let it slowly go back to how it was. If it does continually feel like the friendship/relationship is changing to the old ways maybe it wasn’t meant to be…you can’t force it and you can’t change someone.

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