Post # 1
….Yet he hasnt proposed!!!! He got mad because I hadnt started planning anything because I refused to do so without the ring lol So he picked me up from work and im here typing this as we are planning lol I honestly had no idea I was planning ANYTHING.
Maybe its a hint that he wants to have a engagement party next month that he plans to propse then too. Thats right around the corner.Should we progress planning a engagement party with us not engaged or should we wait until he proposes?
He kocked me over with a arm full of lists and restaurants just now lol
Post # 3
@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers: how do you have an engagement party if you’re not engaged ????
Post # 4
@HisIrishPrincess: Lol girl I dont know! He dragged me to his house to do this. He is seriously mad I didnt plan. Well im not engaged so….Why would I? lol
Post # 5
@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers: The fuck? Honestly, I would get mad right back at him! Tell him, if there is something he knows that you don’t know, then he can plan his own damn party!
Post # 6
Is his planning a that-night engagement party?
FI planned one for us/all our friends the night we got engaged without me knowing!
Post # 7
You’re engaged when you agree that you are. What’s the hold up for announcing engagement? Is he making you wait around for some big production where he “proposes” a question that has clearly already been asked and answered? Personally I’d probably tell him to skip the so-called proposal at this point, sounds like he wants to just go ahead with getting married.
Post # 8
that sounds so odd! Well obvioulsy if you dont have a ring and you havent talked about it then why would you start planing?!
Post # 9
@kendra389: Hey, he says he didn’t mean to get upset. He had been telling everyone his plans but that he asked me to plan about two months ago so the party will be aligned with what he has planned.
@BrandNewBride: Its possible. Our family and friends are all meeting at the party since I’m not in my hometown.
@4cube: Lol seems like it. HE ALWAYS asks should we just go to a courthouse. I just don’t want to be moving ahead of ourselves without a proposal. It just makes sense.
@sequinlove: Agreed! I went along and helped him plan anyway. And now I’m going out of town to spend time with friends and family and to view the spaces we looked at last night online.
Post # 10
That’s crazy!!! Most men would be upset if you did start planning without a proposal. Mine gets uncomfortable if i watch wedding shows on tv.
Post # 11
@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers: def wouldn’t officially plan anything without officially being engaged…but that’s just me! If you feel the same way, which I think you do, you should tell him so! He can’t be mad…he hasn’t upheld his end of the engagement bargain. LOL. No ring=no party
Post # 12
Honestly, it’s really odd to be planning an engagement party without being engaged. It’s like having a baby shower when you’re not pregnant yet.
Post # 13
@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers: We have had our dream engagement party planned for the last 6 or so months. It wasnt intentional: we were at our favorite spot one night and started talking about what a great venue it would be to hold the party and talked to a couple of folks in their planning department while we were there who happened to be in. We havent (obviously) set a date for it or put down a deposit, but otherwise it’ll be good to go when we call with that info.
Same goes for our wedding venue. Literally all we need to do is send a deposit once he pops the question (easy to do when you’re having a beach wedding and just need to firm up plans with the decorators).
As you know, we are not engaged yet. I’m sure some folks we know may think it’s a bit backward, but those same folks also know we have moved twice in the last year across the country and have had plenty of time to plan and get excited for it…but unfortunately, moving drains the finances so a ring has taken a longer time for him to aquire.
Everyone’s process is different.
Post # 14
@braverbeating: Understandable. I’ve managed to not agree to a lot of stuff as far as this is concerned but it seems like he has something nup his sleeve. Not sure what. Nothing is paid for so it doesn’t hurt to hear him out I guess.
@MrsYokiman: You make us sound like creeps lol I understand what you mean though.
@badabing88: This is very true. I couldn’t agree more. So what’s the hold up on your proposal miss? 🙂
@beeeforeigocrazy: Lol that’s wild. Why does he do that?
Post # 15
@GirlWithTheGlassSlippers: He claims he’s going to the jeweler this week, so it looks like he’s going to have to be answering that question soon 🙂
Post # 16
I think you are engaged! You just haven’t been proposed to LOL