We are TTC or at least i thought we were..he says the stupidest things ever..

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@sfigu16:  That’s really insensitive of him.  Have you had a conversation about where that comment came from?  Is it really about you or is he second guessing TTC right now?

Post # 5
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1184 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@sfigu16:  I agree.  But I think a lot of people do get cold feet before major life changes, you know?  We all hear about cold feet when it comes to weddings, and you can’t even divorce babies 🙂  

Give him some time to let the idea sink in.  You may want to have a serious talk about it and consider postponing TTC a few months until he feels more prepared.

Post # 6
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2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@sfigu16:  “As much as i would not like to believe it i think he is second guessing himself and there is nothing wrong about that but at least dont be mean about it!” 

This exactly. If he is having second thoughts, that’s something that you guys need to talk about, but he doesn’t need to make jokes at your expense. Sounds like you have a good attitude about the whole thing, I know you’ll work it out 🙂

Post # 8
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108 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

He might all of a sudden felt the pressure of what it means to have a baby. Perhaps his comments was a reflection of how he realy feels about himself and he is probably quite scared. 

Just reassure him that humans were meant to breed and have all the right things built inside of us to nuture and love a child. 

Post # 10
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2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@sfigu16:  Honestly, sometimes men just say the most STUPID things. Sometimes I look at my FI and have absolutely no idea how something so dumb just came out of his mouth, lol. Ah, gotta love ’em 😉

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@sfigu16:  oh no! sorry he said that, but is he the sarcastic/funny guy? I am only asking cause i can be sarcastic and say things like that, but deep down i really dont mean it.  Or like PP says maybe you should just speak to him and ask him if he really thinks that and then just take it from there. 

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