(Closed) We clapped!

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: Would you be upset if guests clapped as you entered the ceremony on your way down the aisle?
    Yes. : (53 votes)
    37 %
    No. : (91 votes)
    63 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I think it would be weird – I’ve never seen or heard of that before, but if it had happened at my wedding I wouldn’t be mad about it or anything, just would have been caught a little off guard by it I suppose.

    I wouldn’t worry about it. It isn’t like you were being disrespectful or anything. You were just honestly happy to see her.

    Post # 4
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2010

    Honestly, I would have been kinda upset. I guess because I’ve never seen/heard that before and it’s not what I “think of” when I think of walking down the aisle. All I remember from walking down the aisle was the music and checking out my handsome husband standing up there waiting for me. If people had started to clap, I’m sure it would have bothered me and possibly scared me since I wasn’t expecting it.

    Post # 5
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I think I would also be really confused at first, then a bit embarrassed.

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    You know… I don’t think it would be so bad. Odd, maybe…unexpected, sure… but not offensive! Unless it was the “slow clap” LOL.

    Post # 7
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    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    Honestly, I think I would laugh! It sounds like you were swept up in the moment. If it wasn’t alarmingly loud I don’t think I would care. It’s not like you were doing it maliciously. 

    Post # 8
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I’ve never heard of that before. Certainly as the couple make their way out of the ceremony but not when the bride appears. I think I would be a little upset and would possibly have a really bad look on my face at the direction of the clapping had I heard that.

    Post # 9
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    5273 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

    I think its cute! Everyone is so excited to see the bride that they clap, i think that is just the sweetest thing! 🙂

    Post # 10
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    5978 posts
    Bee Keeper

    To be honest, I would be incredibly flattered! I still say that one of the most surprising and best moments of our day was when we walked up the stairs and into the tent where our cocktail hour was being held. As we walked up the stairs and people saw us, they all burst into applause and that touched me so much! Just knowing that everyone was there for us and the incredible reaction we got when we came into cocktail hour…it was an amazing feeling!

    Post # 11
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011 - Bartram's Garden

    Wouldn’t bother me. I think it’s cute and kind of fun.

    Post # 12
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    Helper bee

    I think it should be a new tradition that you clap for the bride! No need to be all solemn and serious at such an exciting moment

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    i see it both ways. it’s flattering but also awkward because clapping means you did something well, and I like to think I look this good without working for it. Lol.

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Whats the difference between a clap and a cheer?  Not much, it would not bother me at all.  It would probably startle you if you were not expecting it.  I think the day can get really serious and perhaps its enough to drive someone crazy.  I say go for it!!!  Clap away!!  Thanks for liking my wedding that much.

    Post # 15
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    @jjilyeah: I don’t think I would be upset but I definitly think that it would be strange. Personally when I walk down the isle I want people to be happy, maybe overjoyed and maybe even full of awe but it would be really awkward for me if they clapped. Goodness I hope that doesn’t happen!!!

    Post # 16
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2010

    People clapped at my wedding and it was not weird at all…..at many weddings I have been too there has been clapping…

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