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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    FI and I found THE house today after his exhaustive search of seriously 100+ properties in the three area towns we looked at.

    The house is affordable, neighborhood is quiet (it's a cul de sac) with lots and lots of kids. Our lot is small but behind it is protected land so it will always be wooded with no other houses built behind it. We would have very close nieghbors to the side too.

    What is the next step now?

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    Woo hoo! Congrats! Do you have a realtor? Have you been pre-approved for a mortgage? If yes to both, time to make an offer :)

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    @Bostongrl25: Yes to both :) So now we make an offer than we do the home inspection after they accept the offer?

     
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    DesireeAnne    October 13, 2012   South Jersey

    Congratulations and good luck with the rest of the process.  :D  my house fever is returning now.

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    You will make an offer and after they accept you will have the inspection done! Do you know when the closing date of the contract is?? Whenever the closing date is, is when yall are the new owners!!

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    Yup!! You should work with your realtor to determine a fair offer. He/She should know the comps. in the area. And then you cross your fingers and hope for the best!!

    And yes, the home inspection comes after they accept. Our home inspector was awesomeeee, so when the time comes I can send you his info. if youre interested since I know youre a fellow MA bee :)

     
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    CanAmBride    September 25, 2010  

    @SoontobeMrsA:Correct. They accept the offer (be prepared for some back and forth negotiations). Then you do the house inspection (more negotiations if there are any problems that you want them to fix/pay for) and then you get all of your documents together to get your mortgage. Then you close in 30-60 days (depending on what your offer said).

     

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    @SoontobeMrsA:  Yes.  You will probably go back and forth a few times before an offer is accepted.  You should have something WRITTEN into your offer that gives you 7-10 days to complete and home inspection and allows you to back out of the contract if you are not happy with the inspectors findings.  I would start researching home inspectors now though so you have a qualified inspector ready to go once the offer is agreed to.  And you probably want to give your mortgage broker a call and updated them on you status.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    @SoontobeMrsA: that is awesome! Keep us posted and post pictures (here or your blog) if you feel comfortable!!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    We are so flipping excited. And get this? Annabelle will get her own floor of the house! The third floor has a big bedroom suite that is perfect for her as she gets older.

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    It is a great deal for the house and the owners are looking to close quick (she's pregnant with baby number three!) so we're hopeful it will all go well. House is only 19 years old.

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    That's so exciting! Congratulations.

    Once the offer is accepted you will sign the purchase and sales. The P&S usually gives you a timeframe of when to get an inspection by and will state that you could back out due to issue found in the inspection. Also, you can put a clause that allows you to back out for failure to get a mortgage (just in case you or FI lost your jobs before closing). Then you have your inspection and if all goes well you set a date to close on the house.

     
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    Moose1209       Nashville, TN

    @SoontobeMrsA:  We got a quick close too because the people we bought our house from were pregnant with baby number SIX!!  Their first girl!  I sure hope they are done now!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Oh and the kitchen is pink. Not obnoxious pink. So flipping cool since I'm in love with pink.

     
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    inexplicablecomfort    October 13, 2012   Chicagoland

    Woo hoo! Congrats on finding a perfect place.:)

    If you want my little piece of advice, the one thing that I wish I'd known going in was that the loan company will need lots of copies of bank statements, savings accounts, mutual funds, retirement funds, etc.

    We had to keep going back and forth signing and faxing and emailing documents to show where our money was coming from. My boyfriend got a $100 check for his birthday from his grandfather in November and they even needed documentation of that! Seems like banks are being big sticklers about getting tons of info these days, so just be prepared! I definitely got frusrated through it all. I'd just recommend not moving around large amounts of money (if you can help it) until after you get the loan approved officially with the bank.

    Good luck!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    We have picked out THE house. Now what? :  wedding 678 02 Medium 31 Justin Ct Dracut MA 01826 Home for sale - MLS #71187586

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    We have picked out THE house. Now what? :  wedding ISh0ditlavrgdf 31 Justin Ct, Dracut, MA 01826

     
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    MrsMaine    May 29, 2011   Boston, MA

    It looks gorgeoussss! So happy for you! :)

    I hope everything works out quickly and easily!

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    Congratulations!!! It looks perfect :)

     
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    kingytobe    June 26, 2011  

    I'm so happy for you! Yayyyy, its gorgeous! We're trying to pick a condo right now (from across the planet) so I understand how exhausting it is! It looks like your place needs little to no work which is exciting!

     
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    europomme    September 17, 2011  

    Awwwww so happy for you, congrats!!!  GOOD luck, I hope it goes through!  Try and put in a reasonable offer, you dont want to lose the house to someone else by low-balling either, but your realtor will advise you :)  Also, the offer will probably be conditional upon financing and an inspection, so you'll have x amount of days to get that done.  And you'll need to look up a lawyer and find out closing costs, etc.  How exciting!!!!!!

     
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    serabell    May 22, 2010   Oregon

    Try not to get your hopes up too much! Also, don't offer TOO low or the owners could get insulted. If its your dream house & the price is right, I'd offer asking price.

    Here's the "beginning" steps: Offer on the house, they either accept your offer, reject it or counter-offer. If they accept, than that's when you start the inspection. If the inspection goes well, you just go thru with the offer & the bank will do something (I forget the name of it, but its to make sure the house is "worth" how much they're lending) OR if the inspection goes bad, you can ask the owners to fix some stuff.

    I know in other areas, it doesn't go quite like that, but that's my experince. Your realtor should guide you through this. You also need to give your realter earnest money, its usually a $500 or $1000 check & you should get it back if the house doesn't go thru. Otherwise, its applied towards the total purchase of the house Check with your realtor on this as well.

    Good luck! I really hope everything works out!!

     
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    Crisark    November 5, 2011   WV

    @SoontobeMrsA: Aww that looks soooo nice!!! Yay for you guys!!!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Thanks :)

    @serabell: Thank you for all the advice!

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    @SoontobeMrsA: Ohh I like the pink!! Its so pretty!! :) Congrats!!!

     
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    @SoontobeMrsA:

    I knew you'd find the "one".  It's got to be yours with the pink!!! :D

     
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    serabell    May 22, 2010   Oregon

    Have you been pre-approved for a loan yet? Met with a bank or lender?

    You can either use the seller's realtor (unless its for sale by owner) or you can find your own realtor. I know using the same realtor as the seller can get tricky, I think there's both good & bad sides to this. I wouldn't go without a realtor if you're not quite sure how everything works.

    Find a realtor that you like & trust & who's fast at responding to you.

    Keep us updated!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    @serabell:Um let me see. Yes, we have been pre-approved. FI had a mortgage through them in the past. 

    We have a realtor. She was recommended by a friend. My FI loves her because both of them talk shop while I wander the house.

     
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    serabell    May 22, 2010   Oregon

    Ok yay :). Just checking! I had an issue with my 1st realtor so I was gonna say get a good one but it sounds like you already do :).

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    Congrats on finding the house!!  Good Luck with the negotiations!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    So it's official. We put in an offer this morning! Eeeee

     
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    Miss.Lace    April 30, 2011   Austin

    YAY!! Good Luck! Let us know how it goes! 

     
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    MrsTimber    October 10, 2010   Michigan

    Congratulations! The house looks wonderful!

     
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    elliestan    October 15, 2011   OK | TX

    yayayayayay - good luck, i hope you get it!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Thanks. I'm so nervous lol! I keep checking my phone like I might miss the call. It's been two hours or so.

     
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    newbiecici    September 18, 2010   Louisiana

    Ooooohh!  Good luck!

     
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    MrsStormy    February 26, 2011   Northern California

    @SoontobeMrsA: Congratulations! Such a fun time! Agree with pp's, don't get too attached, if it doesn't work out there will be another house out there for you, but I hope you get this one!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Thanks ladies :) Fingers crossed.

     
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    serabell    May 22, 2010   Oregon

    Try to distract yourself!! How long did you give them to respond to the offer?

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    They just countered for 3k more....

     

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