(Closed) Wearing an ivory lace dress to someone else's rehearsal dinner?

posted 5 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Is it okay to wear a white/ivory dress with lace to someone else's rehearsal dinner?
    It's fine. : (13 votes)
    9 %
    It's a no-no. : (111 votes)
    76 %
    Only if you ask the bride first. : (23 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
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    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I wouldn’t just because white is obviously traditional to a bride, and even though the bride herself might not be into tradition like wearing a white dress to the RD, white is still completely without a doubt associated with being a bride and it could still look inappropriate. 

    Post # 4
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I don’t think it matters what the bride is wearing, it’s best to just avoid it.

    Post # 5
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2018

    Eeeeeck!  Only if you want to ensure her abject hatred of you for all time!!!

    Post # 6
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014 - White Point Garden, Charleston, SC

    I wouldn’t do it, but I voted ask the bride.

    Post # 7
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    4720 posts
    Honey bee

    Definitely ask the bride. If she’s cool with it, then it’s fine. 

    Post # 8
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I hate that there are dress codes for everything now, But personally I wouldn’t just to avoid any issues.

    Post # 9
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    Busy bee

    Even if the bride is fine with it, you know every other female is going to be looking at any woman wearing white and judging at least a tiny bit.  That’s why I voted no, I thought about “ask the Bride” but then realized that not everyone at the rehearsal would know you got the OK.

    Post # 10
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Do you happen to have a photo of the dress in question?

    Edit: Unless it’s a legit hypothetical, of course 😛

    Post # 11
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I say ask her, although I agree with @LaurenKK:  that you may be judged by the other womenfolk.

    Post # 12
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Nope, honestly I would be ticked. I didn’t wear white or ivory to my rehearsal, but I still feel like those colors should be reserved for the bride at wedding-related events in case she so chooses to use the opportunity (as many brides do) to wear white at all wedding events.

    Post # 13
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    @Ivorybuttons:  I always think, if you have to ask, its probley not a good idea in a case like this.

    Post # 14
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2014

    @Uyzie:  My wedding dress is white/ivory lace and I personally would be a little annoyed if someone wore a dress of that type to my rehearsal dinner. 

    Post # 15
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I would ask. The bride may not care since she isn’t wearing white/ivory. But I wouldn’t assume it’s ok.

    Post # 16
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    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @LaurenKK:  agreed. skip it.

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