Post # 1
I have bought a new YG and pearl necklace and YG CZ bezel set stud earrings for my wedding day. While I intend the save the necklace, I’m DESPERATE to wear the earrings – I don’t have any dainty YG earrings and they are gorgeous. But I am concerned that they will feel less special if I wear them before the big day. Obviously I would feel differently if the jewellery I intend to wear at my wedding I already wear on a daily basis, whereas these were bought specifically for my wedding.
What did/would you do?
Post # 3
I’m not wearing any of mine before the wedding but mostly because I don’t want to break or lose anything. Not that I usually do that, just not taking any chances.
Post # 4
@linnylou_88: all of my wedding jewellery was jewellery that i had already owned. i didn’t feel the need to buy additonal jewellery just for my wedding. my pearl necklace and earrings were from my dh (our first valentine’s day), my pave diamond bracelet was a gift from myself from a few years back and my rhr was my favourite big pink lab diamond that fit my wedding colours. these were all very good pieces that i wear only for special occasions.
just because i wore all of these pieces before, did not make them or my wedding day any less special.
if you want to wear your jewellery, do it. those earrings sound beautiful btw.
Post # 5
- Wedding: September 2014 - Jacksonville Inn
My partner gave me a pair of morganite and rose gold earrings for Valentine’s day and in hopes that I will wear them for our wedding. I am going to wear them for the wedding, but I’m also wearing them daily as they match my engagement ring!
Post # 6
Funny you should ask… I’m wearing the pearl strand and earrings today that FI bought for me to wear for the wedding. They were a gift for my birthday last year. And while I don’t wear them daily, I do pull them out of the safe quite regularly.
Wear ’em now! Enjoy your new jewelry!!!
Post # 7
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
Trust me, there will be SO MANY things that feel special and new (not to mention busy and overwhelming) about your wedding day – it won’t make a difference whether you’ve worn your earrings before or not.
Post # 8
@linnylou_88: With the caveat that I am the least sentimental person ever: Go ahead and wear them. Your wedding day won’t be one iota less special because you had already worn the earrings. And wear them after! Something beautiful that you wear on a special occasion becomes more special for having done so… but that specialness doesn’t rub off with continued use.
I think it’s so lovely when brides continue to use something after the wedding, too. It’s so sad to pack everything up and never touch it again.
My mother used the same earthenware bowl I was baptised from to bake, cook, and serve food at practically every meal for the rest of my childhood, and I would get excited about it every time.
How special something is depends on how you view it, not on how often you use it.
Post # 9
it is a personal preference. i wore my wedding shoes twice before the big day. once to the symphony and to another wedding.
Post # 10
@Bubblesmcgee: I fully intend to wear my jewellery after the wedding- in fact I can’t wait! I bought them for that reason. it’s awesome that your bowl was used again, I’m so sentimental about those sorts of things!
Post # 11
@lolot: You make a VERY good point!!
Post # 12
@mypinkshoes: Thank you 🙂 the earrings are super tiny (only 3mm) but they suit my hair style and the rest of my look perfectly.
You’re so lucky to own such beautiful jewellery! Other than my ERing, the only other quality jewellery I own is a YG .25 diamond pendant. I thought about wearing it for the wedding but it kinda got lost with my dress etc
Post # 13
I’m definitely a sentimental person, but I would/do wear my wedding jewelery and shoes before the wedding.
Post # 14
- Wedding: September 2014 - Waldorf Astoria, Chicago
I’ve worn a bracelet I purchased specificaly for my wedding to my work Holiday party. I would go for it.
Post # 15
@linnylou_88: I was wearing everyting before the wedding except my 1920s necklace because I was afraid it would break!