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I am running out of time and need ideas and Help! We are getting married on Oct. 25th. We had budgeted everything so we could have the wedding that is redneck style but our way (I was to ride a quad down the isle and now do not even have anything to wear) and we wanted to  pay for the people that could not afford to come, we took care of that months ago when prices were great and was slowly paying everything else as it is out of state. We had it all planned to where we would have our bills paid for the month and Nov. rent paid prior to leaving for the wedding Oct 22nd. But I fell down my stairs and torn up my knee. I ended up having surgery which I lost work hours for, then I was worried about the wedding and bills. I work for a non-profit helping people save there homes for free. So I went back to work and then due to using my knee to soon I ended up with a blood clot in my leg. Understand I am the only one working right now. My fiance was in Law Enforement and due to his VA Disability he had to quit and now is going back to college in a retraining VA program. All was well until my injury. I have to have injections in my stomach for 10 days plus use a walker and this has caused such a hardship we may have to cancel the wedding. This is not what we want to do as we have planned for so long and we have 40 people coming who have already paid air and hotels. We wanted to make sure we had everyone covered to where now we are short about $4000 and what I am looking for is ideas to raise quick cash so we do not have to call it off. we are even short on our home bills. We do not have credit cards do not believe in them and now we would not quailfy for one anyway. any ideas would be so greatly appreciated. We do not have much to sell as we sold most items when I had my head injury 1 1/2 years ago. Yes we come from hard knock school but we have always gotten by on our own with no help. This is the first time I am stressed about money and if I get to get married or not. I have not even thought about if I get to walk by then I have to cover one thing at a time.

We are short the following,

 The wedding itself $600, License $55, Limo tip $35, Minister fee $60, His Ring estimate $150, $60 Camo Netting for Background drop, $400 for deposit on room that part we get back when we check out, $600 our room (we only paid depsoit so far) $350 for gas 2 autos to drive there and back and food along way, $100 wedding favors, $250 on photos, $125 for DVD of ceremony and on internet, $50 Hair, $250 dress, $1000 more for reception and spending money to eat 5 days. 

Hello none of the money is for a honeymoon! We already past on that at the beginning since we were getting there early anyway. We are getting married out of state and way to far from home to skip the room. We have to drive instead of flying due to my medication does not allow travel by plane. We are looking for ideas to make fast cash, no handouts or nothing like that or saving money. we do not have 2 rooms we have one room. There is a cash deposit for incidentals due upon arrival  of $100 per night we put down the $100 room deposit and $400 is balance on cash deposit which will be refunded at check out. We are not having a honeymoon as we are coming home the morning after the wedding. We are going up prior and the Bachelor and Bachelorett parties are 2 nights prior that is why leaving early. We are cutting out the favors that is $100 off, The limo is part of the wedding package the $35 is the tip which I am sure we can get our friends to cover so that is another $35 savings. We will give up the camo netting another $60 savings, I am just using my engagement ring we will get him a ring for as close to $100 as possible. We can cut food costs by eating $1 menu mcdonalds but we need to raise the rest. I do not have a dress to wear either as we were doing non-traditional different wedding so was going to get this camo dress for $265 but to late and to short so now not sure what I can wear, We are not having flowers and I was not wearing a trditional wedding dress. We are selling his bow for $400 if we can and his Callaway Brand New Driver he got free that is worth $199 on sale and we are trying to line up a car wash. Any other ideas would be greatly appreciated. We are staying at a moderate hotel for 5 days, and I know that next thing is do we have family we can stay with no we do not, everyone is stayng at same hotel. My parents are not around and his father and step mother are coming but we had to pay for them back in July we got that covered.  We are giving up phots as well just going to have friends take some pictures and call it good. It is kind of everything happening to tell us to call it off but we refuse to so. We come been through so much and it has made our love grow stronger and stronger. He has helped me to walk again after my head injury and now giving me shots in the stomach 2 times a day he is the most wonderful person I know. To give you an idea I normally make about $5000 a month and now making about $1900 until Nov.  That is how we got to do everything on a budget with no problems until now.

Thanks for the comments they are greatly appreciated. We will just  continue to do what we can we will go no matter what to many people have paid for air and hotel jsut so they could be there. Thank you again so much everyone.