wedding

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Ekat:  Don’t do it. I’m going to guess that you knew this a long time ago. I don’t know why you didn’t break it off before. Don’t waste the rest of your FI’s life and don’t get yourself stuck married to someone you don’t want to be with.

Post # 4
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4639 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Ekat:  As hard as it will be, cancel. Your happiness needs to come first.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Do NOT marry him! People will be FINE with you calling off the wedding. The only person that gets hurt is YOU, if you go through with it!

Post # 6
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2913 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

The quicker you call it off, the better. ASAP!

Post # 7
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA

It’s way better to end it now, before you’re married.  Do you want to get stuck in a loveless marriage?  If you don’t leave now, you won’t after the wedding.

Post # 8
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013 - The front lawn of our church

@Ekat:  Don’t marry him. Yes, it will be hard for a while, but not as hard as spending the rest of your life with him, or going through a divorce.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Ekat:   Far better to call it off now than to go through with it.  You will feel much better once the decision is made.   *hugs*  

Post # 10
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355 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I second everyone else, you shouldn’t go through with it. Why don’t you want to be with him though? And what has kept you with him for so long?

Post # 12
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Ekat:  He sounds like a real jerk! I say listen to your Dad and don’t marry him!

Post # 13
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1335 posts
Bumble bee

If you have all these reasons why you shouldn’t get married, than please listen to your intuition.  Your FI does not seem to support you regarding your career, and with such lack of respect it’s going to affect how you feel about yourself and what you can accomplish.

It’s okay to say that you made a “mistake” and that you no longer want to get married to your FI.  It is so much better to back out now vs. after getting married and having to go through a messy brutal divorce.  Money can always be earned and saved again.  Please don’t let other people’s opinions or money ever stop you from doing what you know is right for you and your life!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Ekat:  oh honey. Don’t do it! Don’t go through with this wedding. Even your writing sounds so hopeless and dejected, not at all what a bride should feel like 3 weeks before her wedding.

I know it seems like the end of the world to call it off now, but think of how much worse it will be to get divorced! Call it off. It will be ugly at first but ultimately will be ok in the end! Your friends and your family will still love you, and they will support you through this, and you will start a new, happy life.  

 

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Ekat:   Please don’t worry about your guests – it is sweet of you to be considerate but no one wants you to be unhappy.  Wishing you all the best.

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