- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2013
So, im new at this. I really don’t know how to go about letting my family know i’m getting maarried without something in the mail like, “Suprise! I’m married and nobody knew.”
I’m in an LDR with someone from the UK and in January, his visa will get approved, he comes, here, we have 90 days to get married. Not enough time to plan a wedding for me.
What were going to do is have an engagement party for friends and family when he gets here so everyone can formally meet him. After, were going ot have a courthouse wedding so that he can continue to stay in the country. Then we were planning on a 1 year vow renewal so we can invite out of state family and he can fly his parents over for some semblance of a ceremony.
My question is, how do I let my out of state family know im married while inviting them to our vow renewal at the same time? Do I send an announcement saying “Were getting married on this day” or do I send somethign afterwards like, “Were married!”
Im not trying to piss anyone off. I don’t want anyone feeling left out. I mean I posted on facebook that I was engaged to kind of tell everyone at the same time but my sister was pissed I didn’t tell her first.
What should I do?