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If the invitation doesn't specify a "casual" dress code - leave the jeans and t-shirts at home!
Don't dress like you're going to a club...or walking a beat!
Make sure the girls aren't hanging out!
The best way to guarantee you won't look like a BM is to wear a print. I also avoid wearing black, a colorful guest makes for more vibrant pictures
I disagree on avoiding black at weddings. For a formal evening wedding it's often your best bet. I would say people need to really focus on what's appropriate for the time and setting of the specific wedding, rather than just picking out a dress that they like to wear.
I see nothing wrong with wearing black either!
If you know that the wedding or the reception will be outdoors go prepared! A nice wrap or cardigan can make a huge difference if the weather is cooler. Likewise if it is extremely warm do not wear fabrics that are heavy and don't breathe. Also a garden wedding is not the time to break out your stilletos.
For the record I didn't say there was anything "wrong" with wearing black. I personally think its everyones fall back color because its easy and I try to avoid it.
I say that if the invite does not say casual, and it is not on the beach, guys should wear a suit.
I also think you need to dress appropriately for the ceremony. I was at a wedding this weekend where people wore shorts and flip flops to the daytime church ceremony and I guess changed for the formal reception. I thought it was pretty disrespectful.
I say as a female wedding guest, always have a flattering cocktail dress in a neutral color handy, just in case. Consider the season and formality of the invitation, if the dress code isn't indicated then go with your cocktail dress. A cocktail dress in a dark color can also pass for black-tie events if need be.
For men, if a dress code isn't indicated wear some kind of suit and tie or at least jacket and tie. If it's summer time, it can be a light colored suit.
If the dress code says "Casual" or "Beach Casual" I would still wear maybe a less formal cocktail dress. I honestly don't think you can ever be too dressy for a wedding.
-no flip flops
-no hats (men)
-no overly revealing clothing!!!
-no jeans, t-shirts
-shirt and tie AT LEAST for men - preferably suit unless otherwise stated
-something age appropriate
For men: wear a suit and tie
For ladies: wear a fancy dress and shoes
Look like you put some thought into your outfit and didn't just pull out the first think you saw in your closet that day!
I wore black to an evening wedding last year... and it turned out to be the bridesmaid color!!?!!? The invitations were pink and silver, the groomsmen were wearing a silver vest and tie, so I assumed the ladies would be in pink... Yikes!
I would say even if the wedding attire was listed as casual jeans and t-shirt's aren't acceptable. And don't show up looking like a stripper, a dress that looks like a tube top is never appropriate...
Here is my biggest pet peeve when I look at wedding pictures (and some of you ladies have already kind of mentioned it):
If it is chilly or outdoors, wear an appropriately formal coat or wrap!
Sorry, that Northface pullover doesn't look too cute with that cocktail dress and heels..
Unless the dress code is black tie or cocktail I say wear what you'd wear to church on Easter Sunday. Men - dress pants and a collared or dress shirt minumum. Women in dresses.
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Hi ladies! Happy Friday! I have a question/favor. I'm writing an article [more a how to] on what to wear to weddings. What are some big suggestions some of you can offer? I've got the don't wear white, but am kind of stuck on a few more. It'll be featured on the site! Just let me know if anyone has any good tips!