Wedding Band?

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
3237 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I struggled with this because my halo has diamonds on the side and I wasn’t excited about the idea of a band covering them. I finally decided that I wanted a rose gold band and am so glad that I got it. I really don’t care that the diamonds are covered up, it looks beautiful together. They aren’t soldered together so I can still see the side diamonds when they move apart but it’s nice to have them together.

Find some kind of compromise with your FH though, you are a team now and should be able to work together. I totally understand why he wants you to have a band and I get why you don’t.

Post # 4
1443 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010 - parent's backyard

@kl1987:  I know a few married women who wear just an e-ring only. 

I think he should not get a say in it. it’s your hand and you will be presumably wearing this ring every day for decades. you need to be comfortable with it.

however, you might want a plain band to wear sometimes.  maybe consider getting one for the ceremony but try to talk him in to the idea that you won’t wear it every day?  

if he puts his foot down, then choose a wedding band that you really love and tell him that you’re not going to wear the e-ring after the wedding (or wear it on your right hand). 

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