Wedding Band regret…..

posted 3 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I think your set looks lovely

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

I never look at any woman’s set in real life, to be honest. I see flashes of light and that’s all I notice. Personally I don’t think the band “takes away” from the ring at all. But if YOU don’t like your band, you should change it.

Post # 5
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Bumble bee

I think it’s pretty together! But if you’re not happy with it and won’t wear it much there’s no point in keeping it! Exchange it for something you’ll love! What other bands are you considering??

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

FutureArchidiacono:  I think it’s pretty! But if it bothers you then I really like the first picture of your other choices too! It’s good that you are able to try it on and think about it and also have the option of exchanging it. Sometimes you see it in the store and it looks nice but it feels different when you where it daily. I found that with my wedding ring too and wish I had some time to wear it and feel it (turns out my ring irrates my hand a little bit because it has rough milgrain edges). But I didn’t know that until after I got married because I didn’t really wear it at all until after the wedding. Anyway, good thing you are able to reconsider right now and if you want you can exchange it!

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1987

If you hate it just change it.  After all you’re going to have to live with it for the rest of your life.

Post # 9
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Newbee

I agree with the other bees, exchange your band if you don’t love it. 

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

My first question is will you still be wearing your engagement ring daily along with your wedding band?  I know lots of women who only wore their wedding band after getting married.  If that was the case, then I would keep the band as it’s very pretty!

I agree though that it doesn’t really go with your e-ring.  If you still plan on wearing your solitaire every day then I would exchange the ring.  If you are still in your exchange period than what’s the harm?  I’m sure your FI will understand, and it’s not like he’s presented you with it yet.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Change it.

If you don’t love it now, you will love it even less wearing it daily.

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2011

I have the same wedding band.. i think that it looks nice with your engagement ring but if you don’t like it then i think that you should return instead of worrying about it.

Post # 13
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Helper bee

FutureArchidiacono:  I understand how you feel as I dont want anything that may take away from my E ring either, So I was shocked when I seen your band to find it actually compliments it and does not take away at all. I love it. Maybe you can buy a plain band also and go back and forth? Im sure you can get a very resonable price on one to mach your erings band and then depending on the situation or your mood you can swap the two?

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