- 5 years ago
- Wedding: November 2012
Thats my first post ever here, i found this website few months ago…buti finaly found time to post something, here we go.
Our wedding planning is pretty much finished ,the wedding is in a month. hihahahahaha
I want share some though with you ladies to see if im just crazy or my feelings are normal.
we started planning the wedding around february 2012, for this november.I have a wedding planner, since im not fron the US and just moved here a year ago, i really needed guidance have advice.My fiance/husband work so much and have no time for that,i tried to start by my self but i was just too overstressed about it.so …wedding planner you go.
my wedding planner was very helpful, cause she give a very good structure in what i should do..and honestly im not sure i would have been able to do what we did so far without her help.( houston area u need a planner, let me know she is great)
but i feel so stressed by the wedding,every little details made me worried, and honestly when peopel ask me if im excited about the wedding: i first say no im so stressed…and when i see there look in the face ..i just act again ‘ yeah stressful but its fine..with a fake smile’,cause i dont want seem un appriciative to what i have ( we are very blessed to have the wedding that we want and dreamed of, i know that some people struggle a lot ..:-(..)..but we also had so many issues those last months with a lot of coordination ( visa, paper work, vendors, contract.,flight, honeymoon,other stuff here and there…) that just got over that feeling of being happy by planning the wedding..
But at the end, i just feel stressed and cant find my happiness, i love my Fiance/husband, but i feel the planning is taking too much over my real feelings of this ceremony that is supposed to be for us and our memories and loved ones.
some may read this and say: yeah what ever..but i just want share feelings with you that went or still in this same area…if not..than im Really crazy!!.but i just want find my balance in the planning and really feel happy and be happy..and really happy by the planning, i dont want miss this moment and not even remembering my wedding just because of the stress.
also ,if some people can share some ideas in how to take that stress away..motivations..and teh best check list ever..;-)
Anyway, thank you for the time you gusy had to read me.