(Closed) wedding crashers wtf?? still pissed

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper

That sucks 🙁

I’m sorry that they were so rude about it!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

awwwwwwwww that makes me so  mad *shakes fist*..

I have no words of wisdom or evil plan but I would just like to vent on…. WHAT THE HELL HAPPENED TO SOCIAL DECENCY??? where’s peoples moral compass on stuff like this!!

kinda makes me want to fly across the world to get even… or teach them a lesson… but have comfort in this @andy113: Karma is a B***h and will come back to haunt them…. maybe make them a bug in there next life or something.

We can only hope!

Chin up girl… onwards and upwards!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I understand your not dwelling, but this is ridiculous. I’m sorry and I think you should send them a bill (is that wrong?). As for the friend who discouraged them from coming, maybe this person didn’t want to cause a scene at your wedding by telling them to leave.

Post # 7
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Busy bee

They were rude and they were wrong.  It almost sounds like it was kind of a joke to them…..and yeah, if they had to drive to the venue, change beforehand……it was purposeful…not just like, hey we are in the area and stopped in to say congrats.   They probably don’t realize how wrong it was and that it was upsetting to you; not to mention that your bar was consumption and they possibly cost you a good bit of money depending upon what they drank. 

Not sure what you can do other than avoid them in the future….  Sorry..that sux. 

Post # 8
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Busy bee

I’m not sure about sending them a bill.  It would hard to pin point exactly what liquor they consumed………  I know they ate some cake/dessert.  Not sure how I feel about billing them, though.  I would be curious to see other view points on that issue.  

Post # 9
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Honestly – I think you are overreacting a little bit.  Yes – they are in the wrong.  Ultimatly they shouldn’t have crashed your party.  But what’s done is done.  They didn’t hurt anyone, break anything, and really probably didn’t cost you that much.  To continue to let it upset you does no one any good.  It seems like they were there having a good time with other people that they know, they weren’t complete randoms, and even you said yourself that you didn’t realize they didn’t belong there when you saw them.  Just let it go!

And don’t even think about billing them.  First, you have no idea how much and what they drank so how do you charge them?  Second, the cake and dessert they ate was already paid for and would have been paid for whether they ate it or not.  Again, how do you charge them for a sunk cost?

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

That is so wrong. I’m sure they didn’t mean to be so rude. They are probably ignorant to the stress they caused you.

Sounds like you had a rockin’ wedding tho!

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

They were definitely in the wrong. If it really bothers you that much, I would just ignore them from this point on, and let it go. No point continuing being all mad about it. What’s done is done, and overall your wedding was great, so don’t let it bother you anymore. 🙂

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m sure you shouldn’t/wouldn’t actually bill them, but I bet just thinking of it is enough to put a smile on your face Laughing.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

P.S. I was half kidding when I said bill them.

Post # 14
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Helper bee

Wow I didn’t know people actually crash wedding (like the movie)!!! How classless and tacky is that?! I can’t believe these people.

 

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

@TheFutureMcBride: I think people are reacting more to how the OP said her parents think they should bill them. 🙂

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

that is beyond rude. absolutely appalling behaviour. still, it could be worse – you could be them, going through life without a shred of common decency.

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