- 7 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So we just started planning, and I asked our venue how far in advanced we’d need to let them know. They told me January-ish but the sooner the better. It’s at the baseball field. And they said they can try to make/not make a game the same day since its so far in advanced.
My question is, we wanted Memorial Day. It’s the day we celebrate our anniversary so why not. Is it rude to try to have it that day? Should we shoot for the day before or something?
I’m against the 20th of May, it’s his (late) mothers birthday. If we send the STD out soon enough, it would be more than enough time (I think).
I’m not going to be hurt if his family doesn’t show up. He won’t be either (it’s the side he doesn’t really appreciate; I mean, the grandmother stopped speaking to me because I stubbed my toe (blood ripped off toe nail) and said damnit, under my breath). And they approched me at Christmas and said, when you get married, we’ll take care of EVERYTHING planning! And I really don’t care for them. I smiled at them and kept moving.
Fiance is fine with the day, I told him to speak to his father, and his moms side of the family (extremely close, I couldn’t have picked a better family if you set everyone in front of me). And he agreed on that part. But everyone else will have to take it in stride, it’s about him and I. And all 3 of the bridesmaids have said that that day is fine.