burlap squares
more by MrsEhrlich2bee
Bridesmaid dress opinions
Amazing trip vs. Downpayment. Decisions, decisions...
more in Money
how to have a 'affordable' wedding
6 month check in!
more in Boards
Alternating Sashes

wedding deposits

posted 4 months ago in Money
  •  
    1.
    Member
    72 posts
    Worker bee
    MrsEhrlich2bee    October 6, 2012   San Diego, Ca

    I just had a pretty interesting conversation with my dad. My fi and I found a caterer and a florist that we love and we want to book them. Now our wedding is still 8 months away, and when I told my dad how much in deposits (50% each) we would have to pay, he thought I was crazy. He claimed california law is 10% down to hold the date and once we get closer to the wedding we will pay in full and that's only to gurantee that the companies don't go out of business. Now I agree with him in regards to the caterer (we are doing mexican food- taco bar, etc). We  live in So cal and mexican food caterers are a dome a dozen, so it would be ok if we wait on that until we get closer. However, I never thought we could afford a florist, I thought we would have to do the flowers ourselves, until I met the one I want to book, she is well within our price and I love her. I want to make sure she saves the date for us, so I may go forward with her.

     

    Does anyone know the caliofrinia law on deposits? is there evn a law about this? Should we wait a little longer to book, and is 50% too much to hold the date?

     
    2.
    Member
    1,133 posts
    Bumble bee
    ohmybears48    September 28, 2013   Chicago, IL

    I dont know about Cali, to be honest. But 50% is standard for most places here in Chicago for a venue. If you are doing a seperate caterer, ours have been 30% down to book. Same with photographer and DJ. 

     
    3.
    Member Icon
    Member
    364 posts
    Helper bee
    little_cricket    August 11, 2012   Bay Area

    I don't know about California law (I live in CA) but none of our deposits were 10%. I think the lowest deposit we paid was 20% but the others were either 30% or 50%. I think that's pretty standard. Even, when getting quotes, I didn't notice any 10% deposits from any of our vendors.

     
    4.
    Member Icon
    Member
    182 posts
    Blushing bee
    orchid84    August 18, 2012   Seattle

    All of my deposits were between 25% and 50%.

     
    5.
    Member
    1,841 posts
    Buzzing bee
    adnama    July 21, 2012   Langley, Britsh Columbia

    All of my deposits have been 30% or 50%

     
    6.
    Member
    1,283 posts
    Bumble bee
    misskittykakes    October 20, 2012   Nor Cal

    I don't know the law either...but here are the deposits I have made so far:

    Venue...deposit $200 (total with buffet dinner will be $3k)...the remainder is due on the wedding day

    Photographer...50%...remainder due on wedding day

    DJ...$100...(total is $650)

    Makeup artist....$100...(total is $200)

    Florist....$125....(total is $450)

    Cake...$100...(total is $350)

     

     
    7.
    Member
    452 posts
    Helper bee
    Alleycat    June 2, 2012   Chicago, IL

    I'm not in California either, but my deposits have been varied. We paid about 50% to hold the DJ. About 35% to hold the DJ. We paid the 50% for the ceremony. Our venue we paid like 25% to hold it, then like 30% the other week. I think companies just do whatever works best for them, lol.

     
    8.
    Member
    762 posts
    Busy bee
    kate02121    August 18, 2012  

    I'm not in CA (or a lawyer!), but my perception would be that even if the law says 10%, it would be up to a business' discretion as for what they are willing/not willing to accept to hold a date or make a reservation.

    Think about a florist, they have to order your flowers from their grower well in advance of the actual wedding - so if they are just a small one-man/woman shop, then they might not have the capital needed to purchase the flowers if the deposit is only 10%. 

    Most of my deposits have been in the 20-25% range. 

     
    9.
    Member
    2,663 posts
    Sugar bee
    abbie017    March 16, 2013  

    Another non-California, but my deposits have been in the one-third to half range.  1/3 for venue and photographer, and 1/2 for caterer. 

     
    10.
    Member
    363 posts
    Helper bee
    Garnety    June 2, 2012   NY

    For my venue in NY we agreed to a monthly payment plan which included an initial 15% deposit.

     
    11.
    Member
    25 posts
    Newbee
    fcbella    October 19, 2012   Canada

    We're getting married in Hawaii. All of our deposits have been between 30-50%. For our reception (includes catering/bar), 50% of EXPECTED revenue is due 3 months prior, and the remaining balance is due 3 days before the reception. (Keep in mind we did have to place a $1000 "deposit" just to reserve our reception space when we first booked).

    Deposits between 30-50% seem the norm nowadays. 

     
    12.
    Member
    1,544 posts
    Bumble bee
    auggiefrog    August 25, 2012   Wauwatosa, WI

    So far we've put down 50% on the venue, 50% on the photog, $100 on the caterer and $100 on the DJ.  Honestly 10% is very cheap and if I were a business ower I'd have a tough time staying in business if a few of these people dropped out at the last minute! 

     
    13.
    Hostess
    7,296 posts
    Busy
    Beekeeper
    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    50% was about normal for me. Not in California, though.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    MissBoPeep 94
    ndreighton 81
    hisgoosiegirl 56
    beargoose 55
    Mrs.KMM 46
    akp0702 42
    BetterSherm 42
    MrsBlueSeptember 41
    MrsPom 37
    Beckster329 37

    Money

    User Posts Today
    jjilyeah 3
    sienna76 2
    strawbabies 2
    MrsBlueSeptember 2
    ohulani 2
    zippylef 1
    Lindsay12.31.2010 1
    misslene 1
    QuietOne 1
    angela85 1
    More