Post # 1
Ok… I dont know if this is going to sound weird or not, but I have been having these dreams. All of them are about my wedding, but not in a good way. Usually they start with something going wrong with my dress and hair and makeup while getting ready for the ceremony. After finally getting ready (hair and makeup done or not) I go out to walk down the isle and No one is there. A few people here and there, like my mom and my fiance, but thats it. Sometimes I never even make it to the ceremony because I’m frantically running around trying to get everyone to come. In one of the dreams, I was crying after the wedding and begging everyone to let me have another wedding because no one showed up and it was nothing that I had wanted.
Anyways, these dreams are really starting to get depressing. I wake up constantly just wanting to give up on the whole idea and run off to a court house just to have it done and over with so I can’t have a wedding to be ruined.
Does anyone else have dreams like this? Let me know what kind of wedding fears you may have and if it takes a toll on your planning.
Post # 3
I was going to post today and ask if anyone else was having weird dreams!!
Over the last week or two I’ve been having this same dream again and again, though the details are fuzzy when I wake up. In the dream FI and I have an arrangement that someone will come to the apt (we live apart right now) and I have to review with them what’s been done and what’s left to do. Then I have this nagging uncomfortable feeling (and somewhere in this dream I feel that the other part of our “deal” is that we’re going to date someone else for a month before the wedding, but it’s like a side note and makes me nervous in the dream and a little sick!). Anyway, I always wake up in the middle of the night thinking the person who’s there to check up on things is in my apt!!
It’s so bizarre. I don’t normally have recurring dreams, but this is getting a little silly. It must be the planning, and for me I think it’s my usual fear that I’m going to forget something important.
Hopefully soon enough the only dreams we’ll be having are pleasant ones with memories of what a wonderful wedding we all had 🙂
Post # 4
Wow that is bizarre. I really do hope that it is just the overwhelming feeling I get everyday when I realize how much there is to do. And I definatly hope they will turn into pleasant ones soon!! 🙂