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Wedding dreams/ nightmares

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trugem     TX

I have been having wedding dreams for a while now.

One dream, we were at our reception and all of my bm were wearing completing different dresses in diff colors and they all got up to say something. It seemed like every female that I knew was a bm and it kept going on and on.

I had a dream last night that we were ring shopping.

I few months ago, I had a dream that I would up and it was our wedding day and I hadn't planned a thing. And people were telling me to postpone the wedding, and I was like "When did I even get engaged"? lol

Tell me about your dreams/nightmares

 
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mmmtacos     

Hmm let's see! I had one where he proposed with a very odd ring... made of wire with a tiny diamond, but I was SO excited!  It was weird because of his clients was sitting next to him while he was proposing and "talking him up" to it!

Another dream was me finding out he was going to propose on my birthday (which didn't happen, though I hoped it was prophetic!) and how HAPPY I was!  Just glowing, and smiling all the time even though I *knew*, I didn't let it on.

Last night I had a dream he didn't want to marry me though, and I remember I was sitting in the mall (?) when his mom came up, asked where he was, and said she'd talk to him.  haha.

 

 
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HoneyBear     Texas

I have had several. 

I have had dreams where I was getting married at the mall and I was a mess. my hair wasnt done, my makeup wasnt done etc... i hate those dreams, i have has a couple of those

then i have had the dream where i dont want to get married and im like telling my dad no no no lol

then i had a couple of engagement dreams where my honey was proposing to me. One was really bad and he proposed to me with avril lavigne on his shoulder with this hideous ring lol

 

 
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trugem     TX

Lol

I had a dream that he gave me  a ugly ring too.

 
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gingerlex     UK

I had a dream that he gave me a ring that was crappy and had chips of CZ  and it just looked ugly. I didn't know whether to tell him and sound like a cow or what.

Two days later I dreamt that he gave me a ring that was plated but had some of it worn away and there were coppery bits exposed. it had flowery bits that had petals broken off (made of metal) - a bit like what you'd wear at 12 yrs old. In the dream he'd proposed with this and i'd found out that 10 minutes before he'd proposed with the same ring to someone else who'd turned him down.

 

Those dreams were just this last week! Generally when I dream of BF he's either horrible to me or an idiot. He couldn't be further from it in real life. It really unsettles me all the same though.

 
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cgenove   01/02/10  SF,CALIFORNIA

Since my engagement I've had 2 wedding nightmares.

First- I was late and rushing to the church with my regular clothes. I was on my way to the dressing room but my entourage was blocking the entrance and kept saying I don't need to change.

Second- I was in the church all dressed up and people was ignoring me. Flower vendor brought ugly flowers and for some reason the cake maker brought the cake in the church. It was a beautiful a cake but it's totally diffrent from what I wanted.

hahahaha

 
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oracle   10-02-2010  Los Angeles

I've been having TONS of them... but the one I remember best was just last night.  

It was our wedding day - everything looked and went great - the ceremony was lovely, the food was delicious and then it was time to get the party started.... there was a DJ area - but no DJ.  I couldn't believe that the DJ was THAT late.  I turn to FI and asked him if he heard from him.... and then we realized -after all our various interviews -  WE NEVER BOOKED THE DJ!!  LOL.  

I couldn't believe it was happening - and all our guests decided to leave.  I was so sad I didn't get a first dance - and we were trying to figure out if we needed a wedding re-do - and I was trying to plan it all again so we could have the party.... then our wedding coordinator told us there was some new law that didn't allow for what we were trying to do and if we did we couldn't consummate the marriage (TMI, I know)... the whole thing felt so real I kept wishing I could wake up and it all be a dream...

We are in DJ hunting mode, so it's obviously on the brain. :)

 
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jillianleigh   October 30, 2010  Chicago

I have been having wedding dreams a lot lately and they all seem to have a single theme: the wedding is happening NOW and I haven't planned anything.

2 nights ago I had one of those dreams and I was at the church and my maids were putting me into my dress and the whole time I was saying to them, "But I still have 12 months left to plan!!!"  My dress was too big and one of my cousins was shoving fake boobies into my top.

So weird.

 
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trugem     TX

LOL, it is funny how these dreams seem so real but they are so far from reality. But in all of my dreams, my BF wasn't there. Except for the one when we went ring shopping.

 
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waterprincess     Ohio

OMG tacos - I had the same dream that he proposed with this wirey-type ring!  He got me this huge diamond ring first, but told me it wasn't an e-ring, but a right hand ring.  Then he proposed with the wire deal, and I was like, why can't I just switch hands??  LOL

 
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Erindesmar   October 17, 2009  Boston, MA

Mine mostly had to do with my hair being a mess/falling out all over the place, not having my dress with me, or generally not being ready!

I had a hair and makeup trial I didn't like, which I think spawned the bad dreams : )  It all worked out in the end though!

 

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