Post # 1
So, if you cant tell by my name, I am having quite a bit of trouble making desicions with my wedding. Most recently, I absoulutely cannot decide on a dress! Please help!!! I really like the red and white Alfred Angelo, but its really out of my price range…but I just cant decide what I want!
I linked the photos from my photobucket account since they are kind of large
Post # 3
maybe keep looking till you can narrow it down to two or something then you must sleep on it, look at pictures, decided how much alterations will be. and go with the best finacial choice… i think they all look nice on you, but if you really like the one with the red would you consider a previously loved dress. as long as its in good condition i really dont see a problem with it…. but always take alterations into consideration
Post # 4
@indecisivebride11: I know what you mean! It is really hard to pick a dress, especially when several look good on you! I think our society and a lot of these shows make us think we are supposed to suddenly have this halo of light appear around us and have us burst into tears when we put on “THE ONE” dress that was meant to BE! I think that’s what everyone expects and when that doesn’t happen, you become indecisive.
I like the first dress shown in the pictures the best! I’d say keep looking (depending on how much time you have until the wedding) & only try on dresses within your price range so you stay realistic and within your budget!
Good luck!!! I’m also continuing my hunt for more dresses next weekend to make sure I pick “the right one.”
Post # 5
I totally know what you mean about the whole halo effect. I am starting to feel anxious that maybe I wont find the right dress! That helps a lot. I think I am going to try to stick with my desicion and leave it at that. I put a deposit down on the first one. I tell myself to stop looking, but I think I have become obsessed, lol. We have a nice consignment store in town, so I might continue to browse there.
Post # 6
How do you usually make big decisions? Do you go with your gut, do what others tell you to do, close your eyes and pick? What? Whatever method usually works for you – use that method now.
When it comes to clothing I’ve finally figured out my personal style is classic with slightly unique (not wierd) details rather than just what everyone else is wearing. What’s your style? Take that into consideration when making your decision.
I personally like the dress in “viewing 8 of 16”. (Slightly unique… you usually don’t see ivory and white combined plus I like the classic style of the ivory with the burst of white frillyness in the front) But… that’s my style. Again… what’s yours?
Post # 7
I am really bad at making big desicions. Meaning, I take forever and I make myself sick over them. I thought that I wanted a straight, A-line dress, but then my sister convinced me to try on some others, so therefore now I havent a clue what I want! I am not a dress kind of girl so that just makes it even harder. My normal attire is pop-culture tee shirt and comfy jeans.