(Closed) wedding dress regret!!

posted 5 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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6750 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

@kteach:  You’re crazy!  Go for the first fitting and I bet you will feel a million times better.  First, the mermaid/trumpet look is better for girls who DON’T have large hips because it accentuates your hips and makes them look bigger, so that nagging feeling you have that your hips are too small or butt too flat are wrong!  I noticed that the A-lines tend to “flatten” the butt the most anyway.  The dress is beautiful and looks great on you and will look even better after the fitting, I’m sure.  Don’t stress!

Post # 4
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34 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2012

If you are still looking for something to pop your hips after the fitting (if you keep going with the dress) what about a sash in a color? The emphasis on your waist might make your hips look fuller underneath. I can’t tell how your the waist beading works on your dress, so sorry if my suggestion’s not feasible.

Post # 5
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

That dress is amazing!!!! Keep it!!!

Post # 6
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724 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

If you’re worried about a flat butt, get some padded underwear! There is a great site http://www.lovemybubbles.com and they have amazing products.  My friend wore some at her wedding and her butt looked amazing! I plan to do the same for my wedding next June and I already bought a pair!

Post # 7
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2578 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It looks pretty 🙂

Post # 8
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1458 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@kteach:  I love that dress! And honestly, I had the worst dress regret when I tried on my dress and it did not fit. Once it was altered perfectly, I fell back in love with it. Wait for the alterations – they will do wonders and it will be stunning!

Post # 10
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594 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@kteach:  lady, you look beautiful in that dress. Take a step back, deep breath, and focus on your beauty and not these (no offense) but exagerated flaws. 

You look great !

Post # 11
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964 posts
Busy bee

You butt looks great in the picture.  Just do some butt exercises you have another 8 months to go but seriously think you look pretty good in the dress.

Post # 12
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6209 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2013 - The Liberty House

It will be fine- the clips don’t do nearly what alterations will

Post # 13
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282 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

That dress looks beautiful on you, and it will look even moreso when it’s fitted properly. You have a beautiful figure and the dress shows it off!

Post # 14
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8889 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Beautiful dress!

Post # 15
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3375 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

The dress looks great!! When it’s tighter you’ll see lots of curves. I did and I had a fit n flare like that.

Post # 16
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173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You look GREAT!!!!!

I think we all a little dress regret. I think this happens because we have to purchase our dresses so dang early. There is so much time to obsess over them. I had some major regret while I was waiting for my dress to arrive. I kept looking at the pictures and finding things I didn’t like. Then my dress came & I was convinced it was yellow, because I ordered it in ivory but only tried it on in white. I had my first fitting and fell back in love even though the pictures I took looked pretty horrible, because I was sick & my dress was SO wrinkled, & I hated the way it looked when it was bustled. (And It didn’t look yellow at all.)

I think I finally found peace during my last fitting, even though I hooked my bra too tight and had some not so pretty back fat going on. But it looked so much better once it was steamed! The whole process of buying, altering, and then finally getting to wear your wedding dress is so emotional. I find that when I am feeling nervous about getting married in general, I start to obsess about the details. Try not to drive yourself too crazy and don’t make any rash decisions. At least wait until your first fitting and if you still don’t like it, then maybe look for something else. 

Good luck!

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