Post # 1
So you watch all of the tv shows and movies where the bride cries when she finds “the Dress”…if you don’t cry does that mean that is “it”? I love, love, love, my dress. I went to my final fitting today and was so excited, but I’ve never had that moment where I felt like I wanted to cry. Am I missing something??????
Post # 3
Uhhh…I’m not thinking that you’re missing anything. I just think everyone is different. They also say you cry when you get engaged, cry when you have a baby, etc. I thought for sure I would cry when I got engaged, and didn’t. I sort of felt bad because I didn’t, but acutally it’s alright. Everyone is just different. Sounds like you LOVE your dress and that’s all the matters. Doesn’t sound like you have any second thoughts or anything, so I think you’re good!
Post # 4
Totally agree the first time I was engaged I didn’t cry when I found my dress I just loced the way I felt in it and when my son was born there were no tears either I was scared that this perfect little human depended on me and I fell in love with him but no tears.
Post # 5
No worries!! It sounds like you really love your dress and that you are confident about your choice. Enjoy it! I didn’t cry when I found mine and I was very happy and excited.
Post # 6
When I tried on my very first dress I bawled my eyes out. I had no idea where the tears were coming from. I loved that dress, as did the people I had with me dress shopping. But I LOVED another dress more and despite the fact that everyone was pressuring me to buy the dress I wore when I cried, I KNEW that the dress I wanted was the one I ended up buying. I didn’t cry when wearing it but it felt so right and I was too happy while I was wearing it to cry. I have no doubts it was the right choice.
Post # 7
Some people are just differeent. I didn’t cry either, sometimes you just know its the right one.
Post # 8
I dont think I will cry either and thats surprising because I’m a pretty emotional person! However I’m really emotional about our marriage, not necessarily the dress I will be wearing when we exchange vows (if that makes senes?).
Post # 9
don’t worry! I didn’t cry either…I was just really really happy 🙂
Post # 10
Meh, no worries. I didn’t cry a single tear when I found my dress but I was smiley.
Post # 11
I think crying when you find “the one” is more of the exception than the rule. I am usually an emotional person and I didn’t cry when I got engaged or when I found my gown. I was just over the top happy and in the moment when I got engaged and when I found my dress it was more a feeling of peace.
You are totally fine and not missing anything at all!
Post # 12
I didn’t cry either and I really like my dress but didn’t have an omg this is it!! moment. I tried it on, liked it, remembered it, and went back to get it three months later.
Post # 13
Don’t worry about it at all. I didn’t cry either, although my mom did. I didn’t cry when I got engaged, either. As long as you love your dress (which it certainly sounds like you do), that’s all that matters!
Post # 15
I don’t think you have to cry at all. I doubt I will. I am so not a cryer. Haha But my Grandmother and Mom and maybe even my best friend will and that will just make me feel crazy and a little uncomfortable. But I am still looking forward to it!
Post # 16
No worries! I didn’t cry when I found my dress, but I knew it was the one, because of how it made me feel. You don’t have to cry in order to feel something.
I didn’t even cry when my FI proposed to me. I was just too shocked, and suprised, and I was mad tired, cause I just had donated blood for the first time ever, haha.