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    msDecember    December 18 2009   Washington DC

    not real sure how the FI got this idea in his head but he thinks it would be fun, interesting, and unique if we somehow incorporated a fist bump (with explosion of course!) into our ceremony either before we kiss or at the end... sigh ... how do they come up with these things?

     
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    Haha, Mr. Lab wants to do the same! lol

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    If my FI heard about this, he'd be all over it!

    What kind of explosion would you have exactly? haha I'd save it for AFTER the kiss :)

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    if I were you, I'd do it when the minister says "man and wife", with wicked little grins on your face, and then let your hands melt together as he pulls you in for the kiss.

    love it!

     
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    Miss Velveteen    20 March 2010   New Zealand

    I don't understand but it sounds like fun! What's a first bump??

     
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    Miss V, you know how guys will hit their fists together sometimes? Instead of shaking hands or high fiving or whatever? That's a fist bump ~ literally bumping fists. :)

     
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    Lizaan    August 13, 2011   The Netherlands

    Not telling my FI this! He's already trying to weave in lightsabers (heaven help me) into our entrance to the reception!

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Ha, we're actually doing this! He's even choreographed it, so that I don't fluff it up.

    And yup, it's with the explosion as well, and a head turn. Right on.

     
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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY

    haha! that would be fun!

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    FI would be all over this - I love it. 

    BUT - i agree, where DO they get this stuff???

     
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    Jacqi    February 28, 2009  

    I would veto that idea! just because it is totally not me and I feel dumb everytime we do it :)

     
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    Wow.  Just wow. 

     
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    Redeemed Rebekah    May 8, 2010   Ont, Canada

    Hahaha! This sounds like something my FH would do. Maybe have him and your dad do it if he is giving you away, lol.

     

     
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    sunshinebride    July 30, 2010   California

    If it's something you guys do, then do it!!!  I think it's cute!! :)  And your man's excited about it!  That's too cute!  My FI thinks/hopes the vows are just "I do".  I'm like, there's a little more to it than that.....

     
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    jingle96    May 28, 2010   DW in ARUBA/livin' in VA

    haha...thats so funny!  I'm trying to picture it after the first kiss and your parents being..."uh, what was that?" 

     
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    jocelyn3476       New Jersey

    My husband abuses high fiving and fist bumping.  He does it all the time as a response to every little thing.

    I was going to surprise him and find a cake topper where the couple was high fiving or fist bumping but it would have to be custom and I didn't have enough time.

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    Hahahahaha!!!! Guys are too cute and funny. I would totally do it if my FI wanted me to just because he is so cute when he comes up with an idea for the wedding. This is one of those things that you may just have to give into. I'm definitely NOT telling my FI this though!

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I think it would be cute - let him have it - do it after the kiss - I have seen high fives before and thought it was adorable - it shows kinda like you are a team!

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    @Mrs Martin - exactly!! The team thing is what we're going for, with ours. Everytime we do something really stupid together - take out the trash, whatever... we fist bump or high five and sing "that's effin' teamwork!!" (part of a Tenacious D song). Lol!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    ...a "pound" a la the Obamas huh? LOL! That's a new one during a wedding ceremony but if your FI wants to do it...roll with it.

     
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    Redeemed Rebekah    May 8, 2010   Ont, Canada

    It could be worse... it could be the stomach bump!!!! lol where you jump in the air and it your tummy's together. lol.

     

     
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    hcritton    09/06/09   Seattle, WA

    Yeah I wasn't trying to attract anymore attention to myself during the ceremony and I was already nervous enough trying to not mess up my lines so good thing there was no fist bumping for me but I think it would be hysterical at someone else's. It's gotta be choreographed just right though.

    My hubby wanted to do something ridiculous during our first dance though. That went horribly wrong. It was supposed to be funny but it was more like *cricket, cricket* Sigh, oh well!

     
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    FutureMrsDuff    8/28/2009   Bloomington, MN

    I think it sounds adorable!!! It would be great either right before or right after the kiss. You could also do it right before your exit. Aren't the things that boys come up with just crazy??

    @LaylaBelle... I love that song!! We always make jokes about ordering from Zanzibar (there isn't one in our area).

     

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Lmao!!!

    "What's your favorite dish? I won't make it but we can order it from ZANZIBAR!!!!"

     
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    msDecember    December 18 2009   Washington DC

    you girls are all too funny! Think its so hilarious that other people were thinking the same thing, will have to tell the FI! Love tenacious D

    @Redeemed haha we have tried the stomach bump before, but I end up flying across the room and landing on my butt... that would not be a good way to kick off the party :) So yea thankfully that hasnt crossed his mind

     
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    GaBGal    September 25, 2010  

    LOL a friend of mine got married and they have a great picture of the fist pump. I'm trying to get FI to agree to do one :) Here's a post with the photo http://crosscountrywed.blogspot.com/2009/06/preview-becca-and-coreys-wedding.html

     
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    MyraG    August 14, 2010  

    I love it, if I were a guest at your wedding I would eat that stuff up, so fun when you see the couple's personality shining through

     
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    lemondrop    March 13, 2010   Arizona

    I totally want to after we put our rings on... don't know if FI is going to go for it.  I would love to have a picture of that for the album!!

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    ugg because there men which means they are cute and silly ;p

     
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    krissycake    November 21, 2009   orlando,fl

    lol, i think you could work in that request...but then make sure you get your ideas in there, too! =D

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    This post is so funny!  That's such a guy thing, they're so silly.  However, this is what my step father and I have decided to do instead of a fake hug.  He's walking me down the aisle but I can count the number of times he's hugged me (in 17 years) on one hand, so why fake the funk now?  It's not our thing but a fist bump works.  Should be kinda funny actually.  I say you should do it :)

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    @lizaan: light sabers!!!! OMG I think we need more details!

    FI and I fist bump all the time! It was never something I had thought about doing during the wedding though...but hmmmmm?

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    @ Lizaan: Oh my gosh!  My BF and huge SW fan DOESNT want that!  I actually said that the entrance is the one place it could be allowed :-)

     

    A wedding photog. I know had a couple do a first High Five... then they kissed :-)  

     
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    lauralou852    June 12, 2010   Wichita, KS

    Haha, that would be so cute.. I might have to show this to my FI - We do that all the time!

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    LOL i was thinking of doing a fist bump with my SISTER who is MOH after he actually said "i do" ya know? or even a "raise the roof" LMAO

    i think im giddy and sleep deprived. Laughing

     
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    msDecember    December 18 2009   Washington DC

    shameless bump, caz I loving reading everyone's thoughts on this :)

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I think it's a really cute idea!!

     
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    Laylabelle    November 7, 2009  

    Oh yay, I totally forgot about this thread!

    We had planned to do the fist bump with head turn and explosion, but the hubs forgot about it once we were on stage!

    So we did it when we were announced at the reception, instead! :)

     
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    SunnyPrincess    July 23, 2010  

    I love that I idea!  I think that would be hilarious and really show your personalities!

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    We do a fist bump at work when we want to say "I love you" but there are too many people around!!! Love this idea!

     

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