- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
So our wedding date has been pushed back from August 24 to September 27 of this year but it has worked out better. Recently I had a bridal shower and got a bunch of gifts and some sent to our (my fiance and me) home and some sent to Texas (I live in Ky) where my parents live because we are having the wedding there. I found out yesterday my dad has been opening cards that go to my parents home that are addressed to my fiance and I. My mother put on the invite to send gifts to them if people didn’t have my address. I am really upset… I feel I have a right to be. I found out my grandmother, my dad’s mother, sent ME not my fiance and I but ME alone a check for my wedidng gift… It is 10,000 dollars (she has money). My Dad opened it… and told my mother he was going to forge my signiture and then give me 3 grand of the 10 my grandmother was giving me… I am so angry… My mother told me not to say anything but I am really upset…. Has anyone else experienced this? and should I confront my father? I am having my mother fedex me all the cards that have come in. I am 25 years old, live independently of my parents sense I was 17 and pay all my own bills, car, insurance and so on. I also paid for the whole wedding while my fiance covered bills for Sept and Oct. And I am paying for our trip down there. What would any of you do about this?