Wedding Guests

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Member
1639 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@KarenTag:  They way you handle it is to NOT send them a formal invitation. IF she see her, you say “I’m sorry but the guest list has been decided as we have large families”.

If you see a GM has added a plys one, you inform them that you do not have room for a plus one unless he is married.

Post # 4
Member
731 posts
Busy bee

Just don’t invite that lady and tell the groomsmen not to ask her as a date. If they are close enough to you to be in the wedding party then you should be comfortable enough to ask them that, right?

You should definitely let your dad bring his girlfriend. It would be mean and immature not to.

Post # 5
Member
693 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Legare Waring House

@lampshade:  All of this.

The GM is entitled to a plus one as a member of the wedding party, and unfortunately, it would be pretty rude to your father to not invite his girlfriend. That is an issue best left not addressed by your wedding guest list, in my opinion.

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