Post # 1
.. Is complicated. Ugh. I don’t know if I’ve mentioned it here before but I always wear my hair ridiculously ontop of my head like Pebbles..
So one of the things I wanted to do was be myself at my wedding. someone told me recently that everyone feels like they’re dressed up in a brides costume on their wedding day. I hated that she said that. That sounds AWFUL to me. This is also my concern with my dress but that’s another story. Aaaaanywhoser, I really want to wear my hair in a high bun. I like high buns. I like high messy buns. They’re comfortable and they’re so ME.
Here are some of my tentative ideas:
(Not the middle girl, source)
I LOVE SJP!
I’m afraid that my hair will turn out like the below picture if I tell the lady I want a high bun:
Obviously I’m going to bring pictures but I’m still worried. And I’m also worried that the “messier” type looks will be weird for the wedding? Thoughts? How are you doing your hair?
Post # 3
I think the SJP bun is great… maybe use the word “tousled” and not “messy”…
Kudos on being true to yourself!
Post # 4
I don’t see an SJP picture there? Or am I crazy? But the first pic is Hillary Duff.. is that who we’re talking about? In any case I like that picture the best. Just explain clearly that you don’t want it to be a neat and tidy look and they’ll understand.
Post # 5
I think if you go with pictures and explain well you’ll end up alright. Are you having a trial? might be a good chance to smooth out (or mess up!) any issues first.
And good for you for going for you! I don’t want to dress up like a bride either, I want to be a bridal version of me!
Post # 6
Are the middle two pictures you? I like that bun best actually. Cleaned up a tiny bit with a flower in your hair and that would be relaxed and super cute! I like the first pic you put up as well.
Post # 7
i think you can do this yourself!! youtube tutorials! practice makes perfect!