Post # 1
im freaking out! .. my wedding is on april 5th. Im worried im terrified im nervous.. it might be really nice bc it is the beginning of spring or it might be totally horrible!! my theme is vintage.. and im still working on my decorations.. recently i feel as if i need to throw up.. all i think of is the wedding.. i have even dreamt of it.. i just want it to happen already bc i feel im not myself.. idk.. have any of you ladys gone through this? is this normal.. ?
Post # 3
First the freaking out, then absolute zen.
From “BUT THE CREAM ON THE INVITES DOES NOT PERFECTLY MATCH THE CREAM ON THE ESCORT CARDS AND WILL THE COLOR MAKE MY DRESS LOOK FUNNY IN PICTURES?!”
“Oh, the Pastor had a brain bleed? I hope he’s okay. They found a replacement I’ll meet the day of the wedding? That sounds nice.” And you will sincerely mean it! (And that really DID happen, 4 DAYS before our wedding!)
Post # 4
@susievamor: My wedding is April 5th as well and is also vintagey!
I am pretty over the wedding planning and worrying over every little detail. The groom has not done one thing so far which is the most annoying part.
I’m trying to let things go a bit and not stress over the things that really don’t matter that much (that no one but me will notice) but it is hard.
In short, yes I think its pretty normal 🙂
Post # 5
@susievamor: I totally felt this way 2-3 months before our wedding! Don’t worry. It’s normal. 🙂 It will pass, I promise!
Post # 6
Ugh. We are 36 days away and I am kinda freaking too. I know it will just get worse and I share your “throw up” feelings. I think it is 100% normal. There is so much build up to the day and nerves are to be expected.
I just keep telling myself that the whole point of all this is to get married. I get to call FI my husband and I cannot wait.
P.S. We still have lots to do!