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Wedding invite grammer

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    tj_sept2009      

    How would you word "No gifts please wishing well instead"???

     
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    peeptoe    May 30, 2009   San Francisco, CA

    I don't think it's proper to put anything on the invite- just have people spread the word.

    Or, I've always liked:

    Your presence not presents requested.

     
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    MissStellar    May 2, 2009   MI

    You're not looking for gifts at all? Or is that a polite way to ask for money (I'm serious- I don't know).

     
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    bruschetta    August 29, 2009   Philadelphia

    Cute idea, Miss Peep Toe!  Your presence are your presents.  Wedding invite grammer :  wedding wedding invites Icon Wink

     
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    phillygirl    December 12, 2009   Philadelphia

    If you'd like to stay with your original sentiment, you could say:

    Your well-wishes are present enough. No gifts, please.

    If you're going with Miss Peeptoe's suggestion, you should add a couple of commas:

    Your presence, not presents, requested. 

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    FutureMrsMorgan    May 9, 2009   Los Angeles, CA

    I got an invite to a wedding that had a insert that said something like "in lieu of gifts...".  Maybe dont write it on the actual invite.  Include a little insert along with the reply card or reception card if you are doing those...

     
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    HumarockBride    January 2, 2010   Boston, MA

    I love the : "Your presence is present enough."

    But I agree - don't put it on the invite, spread the word verbally. Some people will still get you gifts and others won't. A wedding is a gift giving occassion, I don't think it's necessary to tell people whether or not they can give you a gift. 

     

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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    I agree with Humarock Bride.  Don't include anything about the gifts in your invites.  But if you're setting up a website, I'd think that you could include something small there.

    And in the same vein Miss Peep Toe's suggestion, I've seen a couple of "Your presence is our present." 

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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    Some people are going to want to get you a present no matter what you put on the invite. So no matter what you include there, I would try to also spread the word about your no-gift desires by word-of-mouth. Another alternatives would be to "register" for charitable donations.

     

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