Post # 1
Hello everyone!!! This is my first post here. Ive been around for the last year just never posted. my wedding is May 21st, 12 days away!!!!! I have been fine for the last 1 1/2 years of my planning and now Im starting to get nervous. I feel like I have so much to do and get done but really dont even know where to start. Im so lost right now and everyday it just get worse. Ughhhhh!!! How many other May 21st brides are here and how are you holding up?
Post # 3
That’s so exciting! Hopefully you don’t have a lot left to do so you can just relax and try to destress. Get a massage or a facial!
Post # 4
Try making a checklist of all that still needs to be done (no matter how small) and cross things off when you finish them. Looking at crossed off items on a list might make you concentrate on everything that you’ve accomplished, and feel a little better amount the things that are left to do. Maybe you could do an A, B, and C list (in order of importance) so that you make sure the most important things get done first. Good luck and make sure on the day of the wedding you let go of any reservations you have about what didn’t get done, or what you wish you had more time to do and ENJOY YOUR DAY!
I’m sure I will feel a lot like you this time next year, my wedding date is May 21, 2011 🙂
Post # 5
Yay! I am so glad to have another Month Twin on here! How is everything going? I am actually a college graduate who is getting married a week after graduation, so right now I am actually very relieved because my finals just finished, so I have all the time in the world to devote these last 12 days to the wedding only.
Right now the biggest thing stressing me out is all the little details to figure out. Like, when family members are getting into town, where they are staying, making out a schedule for the day and coordinating where everyone will be and who is setting up the decorations…and on and on. But we will be okay! And no matter what we will be married at the end of the day on May 21 to the love of our lives and all the little details will somehow figure themselves out.
I have everything I need to do in a huge list, and I just pick one thing and focus only on that and that seems to help a little.
Post # 6
Yayyy how exciting to have someone getting married the same day as me. Im a full time student right now so I know how you feel. My semester ends this friday, one week before my wedding. So I only get 7 days to devote 100% to the wedding.
I dont really think there is a lot I can do right now, I just feel like I should be doing stuff to get ready for the wedding. I just cant wait until Thursday when I can get into the reception site and start decorating. We are getting married and having our reception at a castle and they have so many events going on there all the time, but luckily we can get in the day before. Once the decorating is done I will feel soooo much better!!!
I do need to make myself a list. Everytime I feel like Im all caught up I realize theres something Im forgetting. I am so afraid I am forgetting something important.
Thanks everyone for the advice and encouragment. I wish I had starting posting earlier!
Post # 7
yay!! im getting married the week after you!!! i completely understand! i feel like i have accomplished a lot of things but i still feel i missed out on something LOL plus fi has still some exams at school to take care of so it is all on me! ugh! im so nervous! good luck!
Post # 8
Im soo excited too, a little nervous but I am sure most brides feel this way days before the wedding yay!!!
Post # 9
I’m May 23rd and I can’t wait! After all the planning, I am just so excited it’s almost here!! I am actually one of the lucky ones who is finished with everything that can be done in advance so now I’m getting ansty and starting to make up more stuff to do just to keep myself occupied.
Post # 10
Five more days to go… its creeping up really really fast!! Got lots to do this week. I am finally done with school for this semester so I should have enough time to get it all done. Im really excited!!!!