Wedding is over but just one vent

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@anonbee4040:  I’m so sorry! What happened? I hope you had a great wedding regardless!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

It sounds like she got drunk? I’m sorry, I completely understand why you’d be disappointed. 

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

@anonbee4040:  Yikes. Sounds like she got too drunk/sick. Not cool.

Post # 8
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Honey bee

My mom had a meltdown at my wedding too and it hurt. Her behaviour was humiliating and I was so mad that I didnt speak to her for months after the wedding (immature, I know).

It’s a year later and I’m still mad but I realize there isnt anything I can do to change it. I missed out on the mother/daughter experience, but she missed out too and she although she wont admit it I think deep down she feels bad. and I’m sure your mom feels the same.

Hopefully with some time you can move on and remember all the happy moments from your special day. I know its tough though.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I am so sorry that your mom got drunk at your wedding and wasnt there for you in the capacity that you would have liked for her ot have been. But I will say this, sometimes weddings bring out the worst in people, and eventhough your mom was probably very happy you were tetting married she may have had some anxiety about loosing you…. I wouldnt have believed it until I saw some interesting behaviors in my own family which is very close. 

So while I know it is hurtful, celebrate that you have a new and awesome hubby, be thankful you still have your mother with you and find a way to forgive her and move past it.  You only have one mom and if she died today, anger is not what you want on your heart.

Best wishes to you and your new hubby

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

If it helps, my aunt and Mom got WASTED on Sambucca and threw up in our party bus!

So lots of Moms let go just a little too hard.

It’s fun to make fun of them for it, though! (I like to offer my Mom licorice and watch her turn green)

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - The Cove Lakeside Resort

aww!! I’m so sorry this happened to you!……. this post is making me anxious about my wedding now… my parents ( and whole family really) have been behaving really badly towards me with my wedding…. and i’m sure they will be just as mean during the wedding too….

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@anonbee4040:  I’m sorry your mom didn’t act the way that you wanted her too, that had to be hard.

However, regardless of your mom’s behavior I’m sure you had an INCREDIBLE wedding! Do you have any gorgeous pictures for us to swoon over?! 😀

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