Post # 1
Hi all im soon to be married Well In dec and im really nervous, although we are together 5 years we have never lived together due to work and money and apart from planning a wedding we are in the process of moving into our own please that we dont even have yet and im worred that the stress will get to us and ruin our day, money worries and living worries are really getting to us both and we are now have a very fun relationship right now, not worry about the actual day as I know my friends and family will make it a day to remember but I have lived at home for all of my life as did my BF and its a big change and rench to leave home, We are both in our late 30’s early 40’s..
Any advice as im havin doubts that it’s not going to be happily ever after
Post # 3
My husband and I were the same way. We were buying our house and planning our wedding at the same time, and did not live together before our wedding. Boy was it stressful! Before the wedding, we found ourselves frequently short with one another over our decisions, so it was certainly relationship building to say in the least. Our wedding day was perfect and everything we wanted it to be, and the honeymoon was a much needed break from the year of house/wedding stuff and THENNNN
we came back and had to move into our house and buy furniture. Then came argument after argument as we tried to decide what would work for our new life together (DH is a rather frugal person and I am a little more “normal” in my eyes) – it was a LOT of adjustment, but once we finally got everything into our house and settled in, everything has been beautiful and we are back to being as in love as newlyweds are!
Best of luck to you and your FI. Sounds like everything will be okay! Just remember to breathe and talk to each other about everything so that you’re as on page as you can be!
Post # 4
Hi phewwwwww now I feel better, thank god its not just me, not only have we all that to content with we have also job cut and wages cut throw in for good measure. I know that I can be hard work where my H2B is very laid back, and its like Now I Have to be a grown up now im going to be a wife and have to sort out bills etc..
Post # 5
Thank heavens for weddingbee and all these posts. I’m feeling lots of nerves regarding my approacing wedding (next week!) and i think it’s just planning stress but you know how those doubts creep in.